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    I'm a shy engineering student up in Alberta Canada. Just came out of a 4 year relationship with a girl I met in grade 11. Time to move on with my life and have some fun. I've always had problems with carrying on a conversation, not just with girls but anyone. Always been very shy and bad with girls. Looking to learn how to get over being shy. Picking up girls better would be nice too.

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    the best way too overcome shyness is to get out and make small talk, just walk around and make it your point to say something to someone (doesn't matter who) don't worry about what they think, the worst thing they can do is ignore you, in witch case you can just find someone else to say something to. as far as not knowing what to say, saying anything is better than saying nothing

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    Default Re: New guy with no game

    I would do exactly what meteora said. Also a good starting point would be to read the game by neil strauss, it'll motivate you do go out.

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    Default Re: New guy with no game

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    the best way too overcome shyness is to get out and make small talk, just walk around and make it your point to say something to someone (doesn't matter who) don't worry about what they think, the worst thing they can do is ignore you, in witch case you can just find someone else to say something to. as far as not knowing what to say, saying anything is better than saying nothing
    Alright, pretty much what i figured. I'll have to work on it. gotta start somewhere

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    start small, make some cold aproaches to ask where nearby stores are or what time is it. once you get used to it, try adding a small story like "do you know what time it is, i left my watch at home this morning and it has thrown my scheduale off completely" this may not seem like much, but it will get you used to transitioning from that basic opener into a small normal convorsation. if you can get a conversation, then try to use some dry humor (its another step) you'll get better at talking to people, and you will gain social experience every time you talk to someone. eventualy after months of practice you should be able to anticipate what they are going to say next overcoming shyness won't be easey, but it will be very rewarding not just for your sex-life, but for the quality of your life in general

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    I'll be back at the university in January. I'm gonna keep working out and try getting used to talking to people between now and then and hopefully I'll get better. thanks for all the help guys I've been reading through as much of the material on the forum as I can. maybe I should pick up one of these books.

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    Definatly got a long way to go. I hit up a club on the weekend got a lot of work to do. I froze up all the time never actually opened to any chicks. Two HB7's opened to me and I tried to keep the conversation going and stay confident but the convo died out pretty fast. My friends were pretty useless though, two guys who are even worse then me lol. I gotta go through some of my other friends and find a decent wingman.

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    ordered:
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