I am from Namibia, Windhoek (that's just above South Africa for those who don't know). I have had a girlfriend recently, and I'm not completely lost when it comes to talking to girls. However I've never really been good at it, I'm sure a lot of guys can probably relate to that at some point or rather in their lives.
So ya i basically want to be that guy who knows what to say at the right moments and is just completely comfortable around women, and can entertain a large group without making a fool of myself.
Regardless if this site helps with any of the above, i will be undoubtedly grateful.