Where to start?
I am not a virgin -- Which doesn't mean I've had a lot of partners. I'm 27, and I started regaining control of my life when I realized I let my prime years pass me by. I was gigantic, I'm still fat but I'm a ton better (work in progress), I'm just barely able to fit into semi-stylish clothing for the first time since middle school. Freshman year I was 296, heaviest of my life was 410 and right now I'm 280 and packed with muscle as well.
I've had a lot of stuff go down in my life, I'm not coming here to be a sob story but I grew up fat and treated poorly, I became an outcast.. Between Kindergarten and Sophomore year in high school i'd say I had less than 10 friends, total. It's come to my attention that I have pretty much zero social skills. Blame it on me being weak, not having any friends or never trying to communicate with anyone -- But it's a fact, I'm a wall at social events.
For the first time In my life Women are finding me attractive at a glance (physically), and guys want to strike up conversation with me. In the past people would just look at me and look away, or not respond to my greeting.. I was approached by two women at a little house party recently and within like 2 minutes they bailed because it was clear I didn't know what to say or how to act.
There's a metric ton of information out there, and I know there's more than one way to skin a cat... I just don't know where *I* should start. i read The Game a long time ago, but I only read it as a story.
So where does someone who spent their time reading and afraid of people start? Please point me in a direction to start at, because I'm purely ignorant on the subject.