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    Royksopp is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Trying to be more than a joke..

    Where to start?

    I am not a virgin -- Which doesn't mean I've had a lot of partners. I'm 27, and I started regaining control of my life when I realized I let my prime years pass me by. I was gigantic, I'm still fat but I'm a ton better (work in progress), I'm just barely able to fit into semi-stylish clothing for the first time since middle school. Freshman year I was 296, heaviest of my life was 410 and right now I'm 280 and packed with muscle as well.

    I've had a lot of stuff go down in my life, I'm not coming here to be a sob story but I grew up fat and treated poorly, I became an outcast.. Between Kindergarten and Sophomore year in high school i'd say I had less than 10 friends, total. It's come to my attention that I have pretty much zero social skills. Blame it on me being weak, not having any friends or never trying to communicate with anyone -- But it's a fact, I'm a wall at social events.

    For the first time In my life Women are finding me attractive at a glance (physically), and guys want to strike up conversation with me. In the past people would just look at me and look away, or not respond to my greeting.. I was approached by two women at a little house party recently and within like 2 minutes they bailed because it was clear I didn't know what to say or how to act.

    There's a metric ton of information out there, and I know there's more than one way to skin a cat... I just don't know where *I* should start. i read The Game a long time ago, but I only read it as a story.

    So where does someone who spent their time reading and afraid of people start? Please point me in a direction to start at, because I'm purely ignorant on the subject.
    Last edited by Royksopp; 10-17-2012 at 02:38 PM. Reason: Clarification

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    jackcade is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Trying to be more than a joke..

    You've come the right place bud. Good luck!

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    Royksopp is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Trying to be more than a joke..

    Quote Originally Posted by jackcade View Post
    You've come the right place bud. Good luck!
    I'm starting to believe otherwise, I've received no information pointing me in any direction. I guess I could just lurk...

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    Default Re: Trying to be more than a joke..

    Quote Originally Posted by Royksopp View Post
    I'm starting to believe otherwise, I've received no information pointing me in any direction. I guess I could just lurk...
    Pickup is self-help, so start helping yourself. This website has more information than you'll ever need. If you have a certain sticking point, just ask. We'll be more than happy to help you out.

    -Cody
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