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    Smile Young and Eager to Learn

    Hello, Splitting The Atom here, call me Atom.

    I'm in my late teens, close to the big 20. My count is 2. I have no problems with trying new things and I'm not too shy. I am willing to try any new techniques and such as long as I am armed with the right info.

    My biggest problem is always talking to girls. I don't mean actually talking to them. I can walk up to any girl whatsoever and talk. But after "Hi" "How are you?" "What's your name?" I'm never too sure what to talk about exactly. Most girls I talk with, I find something common between us and talk about that, which leads to other topics. But the others, the ones I find hot and attractive, I can't seem to find a topic which gets us really talking, having a discussion, getting to know wach other. This could be for a number of reasons: She's b*tchy, uptight, tired, I'm not that interesting to her, etc.

    If you answer any question of mine, please answer me this: How do you find a way/topic to talk with a girl, getting to know her a little, whilst making her interested?

    (Is that even possible? To "get to know her" and make her interested at the same time. It seemed to happen for me with my first 2)
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    Default Re: Young and Eager to Learn

    Can anyone please reply to my message?
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    Lightbulb Re: Young and Eager to Learn

    Don't take it personally, not getting responded too is a part of dealing with women!

    However, what you should know is that if you are in college, I would recommend looking at college game, its very different from Regular game!

    As for what to say, you could try openers, cocky funny, or observational conversation.
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    Default Re: Young and Eager to Learn

    Quote Originally Posted by Vecen View Post
    Don't take it personally, not getting responded too is a part of dealing with women!

    However, what you should know is that if you are in college, I would recommend looking at college game, its very different from Regular game!

    As for what to say, you could try openers, cocky funny, or observational conversation.
    Thank you. Are there any threads about college game that you know? I searched it, but nothing much on it.
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    Default Re: Young and Eager to Learn

    For college game, I'll refer you to Cody.

    College game seems to mostly turn around knowing a lot of people though. I once read saying 'Hi, why haven't we met yet? I'm ***' is the only opener you need, although I haven't tested that myself.

    Furthermore, to strike up a conversation, just follow up the opener with guessing her age, her major and what car she drives or something. Any of those three should get you something to start off with.

    For example:

    She might be younger/older than you estimated, which you get a lot too, for example this time when......

    Same goes for her major, and even if you can't find anything on that you could say your is *** because *enter dhv here*

    Same goes for her car. You could replace this with anything else, though.


    Then you can get to know her by asking two or three fun questions from this thread rather than the olda$$ getting-to-know-you questions she's heard 100000 times. Then proceed to ask increasingly more sexual questions from this thread.

    From there on in, you're on your own.

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    Default Re: Young and Eager to Learn

    Thanks a lot! This really helped. Not knowing what questions to ask has always been my biggest problem!
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    Default Re: Young and Eager to Learn

    How do you find a way/topic to talk with a girl, getting to know her a little, whilst making her interested?


    I assume she is interested as long as she is still actively listening and/or has not walked away yet. Lol. Always assume the most logically beneficial reasons. Also, I use the fishing hook technique. Everything that she says is a topic you can use at any point of the conversation. Virgil said some good ways to get the conversation started, and if you really can't think of anything or you've run out of hooks (which is rare but can happen) use something like wide rapport, like "What'd you do today?" Or "What do you like to do on the weekends?" If she acts bored or disinterested, neg her, and/or dhv. If she responds properly she'll give you a list of things to talk about.


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