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Thread: Anyone Else In The Same Boat (Chris from London)?

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    Default Anyone Else In The Same Boat (Chris from London)?

    Hi People I'm Chris From London,

    I'm 32 years old. I'm currently stuck and trying to get out of a bad relationship and trying to build myself and my confidence in order to move on and make progress with my life in every way. At my age I kind of feel like I'm a bit old to be in this situation but I think that it's better to work on getting this sorted now than never doing anything about it.

    I'm on this forum not only to improve my confidence with women but to improve my confidence in all social situations as I currently feel pretty anxious when I'm around others.

    I'm here to meet cool new people, document my progress and give something back. I look forward to meeting people in the same boat and having fun along the way.

    It would be great to hear from people who started out in a similar position and have made great progress.

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    Default Re: Anyone Else In The Same Boat?

    I'm here to meet cool new people.

    You're in luck. I'm pretty cool.

    Haha. Just kidding, but I try really hard. Anyway, welcome to The Forums. It's a great place with lots of cool people.
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    Default Re: Anyone Else In The Same Boat?

    Thanks for the welcome Cody.

    If anybody else is reading this come and say hello. Especially if you are a 30 something based in London.

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    Default Re: Anyone Else In The Same Boat?

    Hey, I'm early 30s and live in Hampshire, so you're not alone in your situation. I'm improving all the time, know most of the technique but working on putting them in to action.

    As you say, better to get going now. Plus, I look young for my years, last weekend I had one HB9 tell me that she thought that I was 22. Showing that age is just an illusion and providing that you don't let your age get to you, it won't be as much of a hindrance as you would think.

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    Default Re: Anyone Else In The Same Boat (Chris from London)?

    Hi Dave,

    Great to hear you are getting on well.

    Funnily enough I also look very young for my age. Until you know my real age most people suggest that I look around 25 sometimes even younger. Which can sometimes be annoying.

    I guess I wasn't really referring to age in terms of looks but more in terms of my own attitude and confidence & the fact that I am 32 and still haven't got this sorted.

    On a positive note I know this is a Mindset thing that I need to and I'm working on getting sorted.

    Thanks for the feedback.

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    Default Re: Anyone Else In The Same Boat (Chris from London)?

    Welcome brother, I was in a similar situation with a girl for over 10 years and all the things she did took away my self esteem and crushed my grapes. I am 36 now and just started to get into rebuilding my inner game which used to be awesome.

    My first step to salvation was when I just snapped one day, I grabbed my guitars and my guns ( crazy to keep guns in a house with a crazy woman I know ) and left everything else behind. That was the best day of my life sir.

    Trust me from the other side of what you are going through, I have been there and you will be thrilled when you get out of it. One of the best things I heard that sums it up is from the game, " I have only about 15,000 days left on this earth and I want to enjoy each one of them."
    ( paraphrased ) .

    Good Luck, hit me with a PM if you want to talk.

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    Default Re: Anyone Else In The Same Boat (Chris from London)?

    I'm 31 and in a similar position, well just looking to bag hotter women really! I'm based in Southampton but go to london fairly often - but more recently, I haven't been up so much - need to get back in the game up there (Leicester square 8pm Fri/sat are v good pickings)

    Pm me if u want or we could sort a random bootcamp where we get drunk and have a lot of fun.

    For me, forget the material from the books- be confident, ask questions, touch / flirt....


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