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    Default Need Help With Bank Teller

    So about a year ago I got out of a long term relationship. Finally i feel like dating and ive realized that the dating scene got hard...a lot harder. Im not looking for anything long term at all...and since ive started asking girls out ive been getting turned down and...well, can you guess how discouraged and shy i get now wanting to ask a girl out?
    Theres this teller at a bank where i have my business and personal account and i chatted with her over the past months while she does my transactions and knowher name...but i can never bring myself to ask her out. And shes always serious and proffessional around me which makes me wanna never ask...even when i smile..which she returns the smile but i doubt its an ioi.
    Any help would be awesome!

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    Default Re: Need Help With Bank Teller

    Nope. ....nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. Don't do it bro lol just walk away.

    I mean I'm one of the first to hear crazy sh1t and jump up and say "I'll try it!" but girls who have access to your financial accounts is a BIG no fly zone.

    There's plenty others in [whatever city or town you're in] and if nothing else you can daygame at a bank that doesn't have your money.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Need Help With Bank Teller

    you could seduce her and get in the bank vault like the movies ? haha nah just kidding, Autismus is right, you don't want to get your $$ involved with a chick, if things go sour you might find yourself with $0, or maybe $1 if you're lucky , if you're one of the guys who learns by experience then all the best but we advise not to do it

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    Default Re: Need Help With Bank Teller

    I know I am brand new to the PUA Forums, but I will have to go ahead and disagree with the other two replies.

    The absolute worst thing that will happen here is you getting turned down and not being comfortable going to that specific teller. There is no way that this individual will risk losing her job and crippling any other future job prospects just to get back at you. Especially if you are a decent human being, which you sound like you are.

    At this point you have already built somewhat of a base for a relationship and have points to discuss. I suggest the next time you conduct business with this teller, go strait for it. Don't beat around the bush, because that of course will lead her to believe you are unconfident. "When you get off work today, we should go get some dinner," or "grab a drink"

    If she says no, at least you tried and have no regrets. If it was a wishy washy "no", I suggest trying a couple more times, because maybe she needed to see how much her time really means.

    I know you mentioned you were not interested in anything long term, but you never know. Maybe this may be the one, but if its not, be civil on the let down if you are successful. Sure I said she would not risk her career, but you sure don't want to risk it.

    My two cents

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    Default Re: Need Help With Bank Teller

    Yeah to be fair I think I'd be more likely to go for it with the bank teller than say a waitress, a waitress could do stuff to your food and get away with it, there's no way she could mess with your bank account and get away with it lol.

    Linking x


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