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    Default Sixty years young and still kicking

    Is it allright to want to date young women in their twenties without appearing creepy. I am very single and independent gainfully employed; look very young for my age; have a full head of black hair and in reasonably good physical shape; and seem to be attracted to young women who could easily be my grandchildren. Is this socially unacceptable behavior? What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Sixty years young and still kicking

    "I don't always seduce a different woman every night... but when I do, they are young enough to be my granddaughters" xD

    I'd say it's not wierd if you don't make it wierd - as long as you're the classy refined guy women dream of. I think it will really be all in the frame - if you think of yourself as "the creepy old guy" then it'll come off that way, but if you think of yourself as "that classy old guy who's always being chased by sexy girls" then it'll seem that way - so super Indirect Game would be the way to go.

    That's just my take when I see older guys out.
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    Default Re: Sixty years young and still kicking

    There are actors and rock stars who are in their fifties and sixties who date women in their forties, thirties and possibly younger. Too many examples but Kelsey Grammar and Billy Joel spring to mind. So if celebrities can do it why not a regular guy who has good game. The only barrier I can think of(other than your mind)is what her friends might think so it's important to get them to think of you as hip and cool and not some creepy old guy or gramps. I'm 42 and I struggle with it too. Most guys on here are half my age. I also am attracted to younger women plus one day in the not too distant future I might want kids so I'll need someone a bit younger than me for that(depending on when I actually settle down).

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    Default Re: Sixty years young and still kicking

    I'll give it to you straight: At 60 I think shooting for 20 is a bit much.

    Super Indirect Game would be the way to go.

    I second this. The ladies will be all over you if you're a sly fox, but they'll freak the f*ck out if you come on to them hard (no sexual inuendo intended). The girls I take out get really creeped out when a guy over 30 openly hits on them.

    At a little over one third of your age, I feel like my opinion carries little weight, but I'd like to think that when I'm 60 I won't be dating girls under 40 (and seeing how I have virtually no dreams or aspirations to get married, still being single at 60 is a decent possibility for me). I'm with [David] Wygant when it comes to dating women your own age. It all comes down to maturity. If you want to f*ck 20-somethings just to f*ck them, then I guess go ahead, but at 21 even I don't want to do that anymore. That kind of pickup gets old fast. I want to share my time with women I enjoy sharing my time with (redundant, yes). Those women typically turn out to be my age because we're at the same place in life, so to speak. But if I can't stand 90% of the women my age, I can't imagine that you would.

    Put short, I think you'll find much more happiness with women closer to your age.
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    Default Re: Sixty years young and still kicking

    I agree with Cody. It's even pushing it for a guy like me in his early 40's to be going after women in their 20's. If you don't look your age that is certainly in your favor but they are bound to find out sooner or later and won't like it if you lie to them. I have a cousin who is in his mid forties and is married to a woman who is maybe 28 now(30 at the most). He met her when he was about 40 or 41 and she was maybe 22 or 23. They seem to be happy. I met her once and I remember her saying she liked older men because "they weren't just interested in sex like the younger guys." That may not have been her exact words but it was something like that. This probably doesn't need to be said but don't come off like the hungry wolf right away who is only interested in sex regardless of the age of the woman. You need to be more subtle than most guys.


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