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Thread: Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

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    Default Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

    So, back in highschool (6 years ago) I was pretty good with the girls, and either always had a girlfriend or had 1-2 dates every weekend.

    Anyways, fast forward a few years, I join the Army and get married. Then I get divorced (deployment amongst other things stressed it too much), get a new girlfriend, deploy to Afghanistan, get a "dear john letter", now, I'm back in the states and have been single for pretty much the last year. My dating life in a nutshell.

    Now I can't get a girlfriend to save my life (I obviously don't mention I was previously married, ever). Honestly, all I want is a decent relationship with an attractive girl, but apparently that's too difficult.

    I've gone on a few dates with girls, but ultimately eventually either get blown off, or ignored, or find out the girl already has a boyfriend.

    I'm 25, in great shape, attractive, have my own condo, drive a new bmw, steady job, going to school full time, and nothing. I figured going back to college all the girls would be into an older/mature guy with money and a bunch of life experience.

    So yea, sorry for the long post, but damn...I just dont get it anymore.

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    Default Re: Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

    Welcome Soldier lol... yeah can be hard to get back into the flow.

    I guessing when you used to date it was with people you already knew as in people from school... its harder to approach a complete stranger and get to know them and askem out...


    Have you read any PUA books?

    The Game by Neil Strauss is what got alot of us into PUAing...

    Knowledge is power man so

    1. get some books and start your journey
    2. Start going out with the intent of meeting new people
    3. Im sure your an interesting guy and have some good stories... get good at telling them (Not too Graphic tho...Light stuff)

    These are just a few simple things to start you off, but definitely read some PUA material then come back and tell us how ya doing and what ya stuck on


    Chappy ^_^

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    Default Re: Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

    One of my friends suggested that book awhile back, I'm pretty sure I'm going to end up picking it up shortly.

    You're right though, most people I would date I either already knew, or met through a friend. Now, I only know a handful of people in my area, and have been flying solo in an area that's pretty unknown to me.

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    Default Re: Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

    i'd offer to go out with you one night but I dunno where you live lol

    im from England though...

    Definitely check out The Game its written like a story showing you the gradual progression of a AFC to PUA and his journey...

    Very good book

    Also Look up a game called the cube, And NLP... the book speak about them it'll be hand to know what they are or have them when you need em...

    Also check out youtube there are loads of teachers on there that offer free advice and even a few of there worshops which are Hours long...

    Mystery and Styles are two great teachers

    Gambler is a UK PUA and offers alot of free material...

    Whats great about youtube is you can watch one video on the subject and then 10 more will be suggested to you and you can find so much info from loads of experts...






    Long story short

    1. The Game
    2. The Cube
    3. NLP
    4. Youtube PUA

    Chappy ^_^
    "If you want it.. It'll cost you"

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    Default Re: Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

    Thanks for the reference material, I'll have to check it out.

    I'm live in a pretty big college town in Arizona, so a bit far from England, lol, but thanks for the offer.

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    Default Re: Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

    Don't look up nlp, I mean you can for fun but it isn't something that beginners or even good puas can use effectively on a daily basis. Its more something that will work on the off chance you hear an opportunity to throw n a trance phrase which isn't often, and even then it still only actually works half the time. You would be better off learning the basics to push pull, Kino, Kino Escalation, the basics of negging, dhv, and how to be alpha in the field. You can click any of the top members and go through their post and threads, I recommend autismus's conversationalist threads and the red barons disqualifier guide for beginners Esp you, but anything from those guys is all top notch stuff.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Stumbled onto this site, just looking for some help

    I've been listening to The Game on audio book so that I can learn while I'm doing dishes, cooking, etc. So, there is that option if you're no good at taking time to sit and read something (like me).

    Also you can check out Styles DVD set on youtube. It was a good starting point for me. Just search "The Game DVD 1 - Neil Strauss Annihilation Method" or go here: youtube.com/watch?v=rB72WvuaxjQ
    Good luck, dude!


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