Hey, what's up guys. This is going to be pretty lame, but I had this crazy connection with this chick who I was dating for a couple of weeks.

Didn't text too much, only set up dates, kissed, she was leaning into me for attention, etc.

Anyways, she told me from jump street she didn't what she wanted and proceeded to tell me about her mom's death a few months ago and how she was still mad at her ex and herself for some things. She even said when we started going out that she was scared of me because she didn't want to get hurt.

To make a long story short we had a great date on Wednesday and then Friday she turned around and said "I don't think were in the same places cuz you know exactly what you want and I don't." Which, that means she's not attracted from my understanding. At least that's what it means to me when I say that to a chick. Anyway, I agreed with her and didn't text her until the following week in which she was laughing and crap. Called her for 5 mins the next day and she seemed distant.

I'm going to move on, but I'd like to see what I could do to increase that attraction; if that was even the problem. Any advice would be good for this chick or next. And no, I haven't spoken to her since the day I called, but I do have to see her once/wk. I'm guessing I should just play cool, say hey, what's up and walk away to make that space. IDK, you guys tell me. It's been a while since I've dated due to coming out of a divorce.


Oh, and have a sticking point after opening the chicks up and keeping the convo going.