First off, I would like to say I am delighted to be in the worlds best PUA Forums. I have a dilemma, I am a 20 year old practicing Sikh male and in our religion we cannot cut our hair. A religion descended from North India, and we believe hair is a gift from god, and to live in our natural form ( to not cut our hair). I get along just find with Indian girls, but not so much with American girls. I currently live in SF California, and go to college in Los Altos, CA. But when girls first thin slice me, they see a guy with a turban and beard and I have a feeling they get turned off. And It has really started to take its toll, though I am confident and can walk up to any girl on the street and start a convo. However, I feel they disqualify me because of the beard, and and I think in there minds
they cant stand kissing a guy with a beard. I also have gotten comments like you look like your 40 years old, however I recently just turned 20. For Example, I was at Starbucks yesterday and there was this
Blonde girl looked about 19 years old getting a Caramel Frap, I walked up to her and started a convo. But when she initially looked at me, she had this disgusted/scared expression on her face which really killed my confidence in that cold approach. I have considered even cutting my hair, but at the end of the day I just cant. Because, I grew up practicing Sikhism and I am proud of my heritage. I would really appreciate your feedback & analysis. Also, what steps could i do to overcome this?