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Thread: PUA GUYS in here, Bad Situation

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    Hello Puaforums,
    First off, I would like to say I am delighted to be in the worlds best PUA Forums. I have a dilemma, I am a 20 year old practicing Sikh male and in our religion we cannot cut our hair. A religion descended from North India, and we believe hair is a gift from god, and to live in our natural form ( to not cut our hair). I get along just find with Indian girls, but not so much with American girls. I currently live in SF California, and go to college in Los Altos, CA. But when girls first thin slice me, they see a guy with a turban and beard and I have a feeling they get turned off. And It has really started to take its toll, though I am confident and can walk up to any girl on the street and start a convo. However, I feel they disqualify me because of the beard, and and I think in there minds
    they cant stand kissing a guy with a beard. I also have gotten comments like you look like your 40 years old, however I recently just turned 20. For Example, I was at Starbucks yesterday and there was this
    Blonde girl looked about 19 years old getting a Caramel Frap, I walked up to her and started a convo. But when she initially looked at me, she had this disgusted/scared expression on her face which really killed my confidence in that cold approach. I have considered even cutting my hair, but at the end of the day I just cant. Because, I grew up practicing Sikhism and I am proud of my heritage. I would really appreciate your feedback & analysis. Also, what steps could i do to overcome this?

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    Default Re: PUA GUYS in here, Bad Situation

    I have indian friends both from north and south. Some are sikh and practicing. They normally have a lot of girls but then again they have wealth. Either case one thing for certain is that they are very confident and very charming. Women like that, and all you can do is be yourself, love yourself, and be confident and charming.
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    Default Re: PUA GUYS in here, Bad Situation

    thank you topgunningit,
    I do love myself and are pretty confident, I think its the wealth part thats going to be a major help in that case, since were not considered "attractive" to societies standards. Since I am still in college and trying to finish my degree, I do not have much wealth in this point in time. Sometimes its just really frustrating, but I can live with it
    Thanks for your analysis though

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    Everyone is not the Same so you will have to continue to press and pursue if your intentions is to meet someone, I understand a certain stigma comes with a certain Background,ethnicity ,status and overall apperance.... It boils down to what is important to YOU, but you have to understand what your up against as well... Grooming and looking clean cut goes a long way... You hair your religion are NOT Who you are as a man... Represent your TRUE Self whatever it may be

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    Personally I believe it's the parents' job to love their children unconditionally. If they choose not to then that reflects poorly on them, not you. Your life, your body, your choice.

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    Default Re: PUA GUYS in here, Bad Situation

    I feel it's definitely a culture thing. Different cultures find different things attractive. Outside of universal attraction triggers obviously. But even in our culture some women have strong preferences. Such as only dating black/white guys. Or would never date a guy shorter than them.

    It's possible to overcome Therese things with women, but it's more difficult and sometimes just not worth the effort. Be a good salesman and only chase good leads.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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