I just recently joined this forum and thought I'd introduce myself. I actually consider myself successful with the ladies and currently have a wonderful gf (12/6/12 will mark our 1 yr anniversary).
I was once a shy guy who had trouble with girls among other things (I go into more detail about this on my website; you can send me a private msg for the link). Long story short: I read a variety of books, articles, and even modeled other successful guys.
Through a combination of systematic desensitization, cognitive restructuring, neuro linguistic programming (NLP), and ongoing trial & error, I've not only become a better lady's man but also improved my overall social life. I look forward to contributing my knowledge and wisdom to the group.