Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 5 of 5
Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By AJSerenity

Thread: I just joined this forum

  1. #1
    AJSerenity is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 58, Level: 1
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 6.8%
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    5
    Points
    58
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Smile I just joined this forum

    Hey everyone!

    I just recently joined this forum and thought I'd introduce myself. I actually consider myself successful with the ladies and currently have a wonderful gf (12/6/12 will mark our 1 yr anniversary).

    I was once a shy guy who had trouble with girls among other things (I go into more detail about this on my website; you can send me a private msg for the link). Long story short: I read a variety of books, articles, and even modeled other successful guys.

    Through a combination of systematic desensitization, cognitive restructuring, neuro linguistic programming (NLP), and ongoing trial & error, I've not only become a better lady's man but also improved my overall social life. I look forward to contributing my knowledge and wisdom to the group.

  2. #2
    ShoreGuy28's Avatar
    ShoreGuy28 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,548, Level: 22
    Level completed: 48%, Points required for next Level: 52
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    North-East Coast
    Posts
    215
    Points
    1,548
    Level
    22
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    73

    Default Re: I just joined this forum

    That's great and welcome! I'd be really interested in looking into and possibly using NLP in some of my pickups...I'm excited to bounce some ideas off you as well!

    Lets keep in touch bro
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

  3. #3
    AJSerenity is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 58, Level: 1
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 6.8%
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    5
    Points
    58
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Here's one NLP technique that has helped me . . .

    Awesome ShoreGuy28!

    I'll share one NLP technique that's really helped me and it's called the negative memory annihilator technique.

    Basically you bring yourself to a state of deep relaxation (deep breathing for about 5 - 10 minutes with eyes closed and no interruptions). Then you imagine a black ball beside you.

    Then you visualize negative experiences from your past in black and white (e.g. horrible first dates, break up experiences, verbal abuse, etc). You replay these black n white memories from start to finish and then imagine "throwing them away" into the black box. After you have "filled" this black box, you then imagine shrinking this box and sending it miles away.

    This is one of many techniques that has really helped me.

  4. #4
    Smally27 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 52, Level: 1
    Level completed: 4%, Points required for next Level: 48
    Overall activity: 2.7%
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    2
    Points
    52
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: I just joined this forum

    Im New too, Im not horrible with women but I just want to be able to get more Girls and be more confident and social in general

  5. #5
    AJSerenity is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 58, Level: 1
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 6.8%
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    5
    Points
    58
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: I just joined this forum

    Hey Smally27 welcome! I wish you the best in becoming a better lady's man. It's all about practice and consistent action. The more women you approach and talk to, the more your confidence level will rise over time.


Similar Threads

  1. Just joined this forum-introduction
    By alysdare in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 11-26-2012, 03:56 AM
  2. I've finally joined
    By y_c in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-10-2012, 03:58 PM
  3. I just joined the forum, needing a little help.
    By Johnny boy in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 07-21-2012, 10:48 PM
  4. Just joined up.
    By chickmagnet in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 08-30-2011, 05:57 PM
  5. BadMisterFrosty has joined
    By BadMisterFrosty in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 07-24-2011, 04:30 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com