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    Default New member, interesting forum.

    I'm not good at introductions, but hey I thought this forum seems pretty great.

    I'm a music major with a study in percussion, I do fairly well in school and have a ton of friends. I work hard in both the school and the gym and strive to be the best person I can be...but then you have the other side of me that's not very confident, I'm shy around girls. I've had many girl friends but I'm not usually attracted to the girls I date.

    I tend to stare at the floor when I see an insanely attractive girl or I start acting weird and robotic.

    I've been told that I have good looks, I just have no idea why I don't believe it myself.

    These are things I'm hoping I can fix here, nice to meet you guys.

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    Default Re: New member, interesting forum.

    Quote Originally Posted by musicguy View Post
    I'm not good at introductions, but hey I thought this forum seems pretty great.

    I'm a music major with a study in percussion, I do fairly well in school and have a ton of friends. I work hard in both the school and the gym and strive to be the best person I can be...but then you have the other side of me that's not very confident, I'm shy around girls. I've had many girl friends but I'm not usually attracted to the girls I date.

    I tend to stare at the floor when I see an insanely attractive girl or I start acting weird and robotic.

    I've been told that I have good looks, I just have no idea why I don't believe it myself.

    These are things I'm hoping I can fix here, nice to meet you guys.
    U need to work on your inner game and get rid of you're aa u'll be fine girls love musicians
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: New member, interesting forum.

    Amazing advice, I applied the aa stuff....and I had...

    - Two girls flat out give me their number.
    - One girl ask for my number.
    - Another girl started flirting with me.

    Thank you! Now the question is what do I do next?...

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    Default Re: New member, interesting forum.

    Ok, texting guides.......http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html
    And http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ing-guide.html them two should sort your text game out, as for flirting and stuff check this thread there are links to all the experts posts
    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...right-you.html

    Hope this helps

    Linking x

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    Default Re: New member, interesting forum.

    Hey musicguy sounds like you are on a roll and making progress!

    Indeed this is all a step by step progress. I should know since I'm a recovering nice/shy guy myself (I give my full story on my website).

    After overcoming your aa and being able to approach girls, talk to them, and get their numbers, the next thing to keep in mind is don't call or text too soon. Wait maybe 2-3 days before contacting her to "let it marinate" and give her a chance to think about you.

    When you do make that first phone call, keep things light, fun, and flirty. You also want to ask her out for a first date. The first date should take place on a day Sun - Thurs (if meeting on a Fri or Sat night for first time, this makes you look like you have no social life; you want to give the impression that you already have a busy life and giving her the benefit of being part of yours).

    If you call her on a Monday, instead of saying something like "would you like to meet" or "what would you like to do", tell her what you would like to do. Say something like "you know, I haven't gone bowling in a while. You and I should do dinner and bowling this Wed evening". If she really likes you and wants to be with you, either she'll tell you it's on OR if she's busy that night, she'll counter-offer and let you know a better day/time to meet up.

    I hope this all helps. Best of luck to you!


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