I'm new to the forums and was introduced to the community to the famous book by Neil Strauss. I've had some successful sarges by using some of the techniques from the book but I am looking forward to learning more. I'm still trying to get over my Approach Anxiety, and the three second rule seems to work the best! I also found that not being hammered at the bar makes it easier to talk to women as well. Seems obvious but I guess I never thought of it before.