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Thread: New Member - Always FRIENDZONED

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    Default New Member - Always FRIENDZONED

    Every time I think I'm getting close to a girl I try it on but always get "You're too much of a friend" How do I avoid this?

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    Default Re: New Member - Always FRIENDZONED

    I'm on my learning path myself. And have got my fair share of "friendzoning" so far in my life. Most of the time, it's because I get emotional way too soon, and pursue the girl too much. Acting beta. Making her feel suffocated or afraid of me. She gets intimidated of me, for all the wrong reasons. And I'm the only one to blame. =P

    But here is what I found about the subject, which I think will be of great help to you:

    Hum... OK... Can't post URLs because I don't have enough posts yet.

    But I would advise you to do a search of the forums and look for the member named The Red Baron. He's got really good stuff about the subject.

    Other things you may want to take a look at are the Articles (click on "Articles" right under "Welcome, AIMLESS VALOUR". On the top right). There's a lot of really well written stuff that may help you with your inner game, and there are many of them dealing with the friend zone. ^_-

    I hope that helps and that you'll get better soon!

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    Default Re: New Member - Always FRIENDZONED

    Thanks man I'll check him out! And yeah i think i have the same issue really :/

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    Default Re: New Member - Always FRIENDZONED

    You're skipping the attraction part,and jump onto the comfort,when the girl is not attracted,but she's comfortable with you,she's going to friend zone you.

    Things to do :

    First of all i don't have the exact links,but there are number of guides on this forum explaining how to stay out of Friend Zone.

    In short :

    Flirt/Neg/Push Pull.

    dhv of course.

    Don't be the type of a guy who chases your targets.If you chase,you loose value,in other words don't be needy.

    Don't be her buddy whom she complains about everything and everyone,tell her you've got your girlfriends for that.Obviously in some situations if she's attracted to you,she might want your support(if she was hurt or something),but don't trash talk with her about other people,don't go shopping with her if your not her boyfriend....these are the things a girl will do with her friends or boyfriend.Don't text with her non-stop.

    Just don't be the kind of a guy who is friend,it's kind of obvious.
    Watch her body language,look for IOIs...

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    Default Re: New Member - Always FRIENDZONED

    That kind of behaviour, pursuing the girl by acting needy and clingy, screams of low self-confidence, which is a turn off for most if not all women.


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