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Thread: I Feel Like Giving Up

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    Default I Feel Like Giving Up

    Ever since getting out of a long term relationship 3 years ago things just arent the same for meeting women anymore. Ive lost my mojo or something. 27 and i think im somewhat good looking and i think thats the only reason i am able to meet girls upfront. I do meet girls and the ones that i am interested in end in rejection or they come off interested at first but i quickly lose them the more i talk to them. I dont think i know how to talk to girls anymore. Playing the whole psychological game with girls is burning me out. Getting tired of it but if i do quit meeting girls completely where the heck do i end up? I live a pretty independent healthy active lifestyle and dont sit around gloating about it but it does get frustrating. Another example is when talking with a girl only to see her interest turn to another guy that comes up 'cockblocking'. I feel like a nice guy but i guess it comes off as no confidence? Being an ass isnt me though. Perhaps im just socially retarded? I really feel like giving up and not putting in any effort to meet any girls anymore just tired of it all. Dont know how to turn this all around. Thanks.

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    Default Re: I Feel Like Giving Up

    Don't give up man. We've had all rough spots, you just need to keep pushing through.

    The reason why girls are more interested in the other guy is because he's an AMOG and just out-alpha'ing you. You need to stay alpha and keep control of the situation. One of the best ways, ignore the girl and start talking to the guy like an old friend and keep him away from the girl. Then, introduce the two and start involving her in the conversation but remember to control the frame.

    As for the psychological game burning you out, I'm not entirely sure what you mean. There shouldn't be much psychological play going on. Everything about the game is social cues and using them to your advantage. It is a little rough at first but practice makes perfect. You'll figure things out in no time, you just have to keep trying.
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    NEVER EVER EVER give up! would u rather stay a pussy all of you're life or struggle to become a MAN
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I Feel Like Giving Up

    this reminds me of a lesson i once learned, i wanted a hypnotist to hypnotize me to be confident with wemon, i had asked him and he wouldn't do it, but he gave me just a few words of wisdom.
    "all getting wemon really boils down to is experience"

    it really sunk in, social confidence comes from social experience.

    in addition, you've been conditioned to be a p#ssy, your momy meant well when she tought you to be nice to others, but she didn't teach you to be nice to yourself, because none of these girls matter at all compared to you. you don't need any of them. you are the most important person in the relationship! weather you have the girl or not, you will always have you, so its time to be a little selfish and start thinking about what you need and what you want. no one else matters until you have met your own needs

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    Default Re: I Feel Like Giving Up

    Nicely written meteora. I am almost the same page as "dynamix" only that I have been out of a 6 years relationship with the "first" girl in my life and now at 26 (two years after we break up) I find myself in a different world. I was until recently very scared in to talking with girls just because everything was new to me and i wasn't sure what I should say. Now, after a couple of drinks and going at it (needed to get the confidence up and running the only way I knew it would act) I find myself in dynamix position. Not really knowing what I could say to them. I think this might be a problem of trust since I have a very hard time trusting the person in front of me and always thinking it might happen again... did you guys ever had this experience? and if you did... how would you advise me to get it off my chest and start enjoying more.

    Thanks,
    Franky

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    Default Re: I Feel Like Giving Up

    One thing I've learned in pick up is RELAX. Do not make things extra complicated. See situations for what they are... not what u want them to be. That way u can see how to improve in small steps. U dont entertain an HB5 and get depressed that u arent with a model lol. U work up to it. Appreciate your progress always.

    Trust me... i fell for the same girl twice in a ten year period. I know how screwed up u cn feel when you cant get the old mojo to work.
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    Default Re: I Feel Like Giving Up

    Please don't give up. Never, ever give up. Fight until you can't fight anymore.

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    Default Re: I Feel Like Giving Up

    "This man is in some need of courage. Get the mojo transfer cable ready."

    "Ay Capitan!"

    "Wait, when did we turn Russian?"

    "Ever since Capitan became more funner to say than captain!"

    I have been at this for 4 months and have not had any real progress with women, and yet and I feel more in control then I have ever been in my life. Its a great feeling. It will take time; case in point I am giving myself most of my college career to get good at this stuff.
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    Default Re: I Feel Like Giving Up

    Quote Originally Posted by dynamix View Post
    Ever since getting out of a long term relationship 3 years ago things just arent the same for meeting women anymore. Ive lost my mojo or something. 27 and i think im somewhat good looking and i think thats the only reason i am able to meet girls upfront. I do meet girls and the ones that i am interested in end in rejection or they come off interested at first but i quickly lose them the more i talk to them. I dont think i know how to talk to girls anymore. Playing the whole psychological game with girls is burning me out. Getting tired of it but if i do quit meeting girls completely where the heck do i end up? I live a pretty independent healthy active lifestyle and dont sit around gloating about it but it does get frustrating. Another example is when talking with a girl only to see her interest turn to another guy that comes up 'cockblocking'. I feel like a nice guy but i guess it comes off as no confidence? Being an ass isnt me though. Perhaps im just socially retarded? I really feel like giving up and not putting in any effort to meet any girls anymore just tired of it all. Dont know how to turn this all around. Thanks.
    A few things you should know before you throw in the towl. Only 1/3 of men said they were sexualy active in some survey I read. That's right, 2/3's if us are out there with our Cocks in our hands. So don't feel bad.

    Girls are frustrating. They are completely illogical like us men are. She may turn you down, then tell all her friends she feels like an idiot, and they will all agree..

    We have to keep trying, there's awlays an excuse to give up. Once you start hiting it, you'll get the swager back.


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