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Thread: Girlfriend ignoring me for 4 months what to do?

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    Default Girlfriend ignoring me for 4 months what to do?

    Ok so I'll start off with a little background: I met this girl about two years ago.
    we became friends right of the bat but that was part of the problem at first.
    I was best-friend-zoned for about a year as she went through multiple bf's.
    After about a year and 2 months she was single and suddenly took an interest in me.
    her interest was caused because she got jealous of another girl who was hitting on me and thought she couldn't stand it if i was with someone else.
    She was attracted for about a month before i asked her out. we went out for about 5 months.
    during those months we were great together, happy as could be. After a while she just started ignoring me.
    for no reason at all she wouldnt talk to me wouldnt text wouldnt even look at me.
    so i decided to use no contact to pull her back. it worked. she came back after a month apologizing for her stupidity.
    i let her come back and we were fine again for two weeks.
    during those two weeks she showed tons and tons of attraction. but after those two weeks had passed she started ignoring me again.
    I tried to talk to her about it twice and both times she wouldnt answer but just kept ignoring me.
    I still saw her at church every sunday but she clearly made an effort to stay as far from me as possible.
    she has been ignoring me with extreme prejudice ever since (four months).
    every sunday if i even come near her she frowns and walks as far away as possible.
    My questions are: where in the world did i mess up?
    why is she so prejudiced instead of indifferent towards me?
    and MOST IMPORTANTLY how do i get her back?? i really care for her and even after 4 months i dont care for anyone else!
    please help me! any advice would be incredibly appreciated! thanks so much for reading and helping!

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    Default Re: Girlfriend ignoring me for 4 months what to do?

    She is clearly crazy, needs constan attention and you need to move on.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend ignoring me for 4 months what to do?

    "Captain! Oneitis detected in massive concentrations at sector gamma Mybyrd!"

    "Sweet mother of potatoes that's high! Fire the 'get over her find a new one' torpedoes!"

    "Ay captain!"

    *Fires torpedo*

    Ho'kay, so even though she is clearly over you, you desperately want her back. This goes against everything PUA Mindset stands for. There are over 0923751 other singles out there who would just wuv <3 to date you. THIS WOMEN IS NOT WORTH YOUR TIME!!1!1!11!!1!one! 1!!1!1. I know it is hard but you have to get over your emotions for her.
    "My enemies are advanced, bold, intelligent and powerful. But I am evolved"
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    Default Re: Girlfriend ignoring me for 4 months what to do?

    From what I've been noticing from similar situations it seems to me like you've got two options. Completely let her go. Or get her to understand that you are unresponsive to her bullshit. Date other girls just for the sake of dating and put her on the backburner for a little while. friend zone her and stop comparing other girls to her. Just get out there and get your feet wet and let her sit around and get bored and she just might come to you. Thats all I can say, but I don't know much. Just a newby PUA.


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