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    Post i need help with my ex

    Imsingle again and stuck on my ex i love her so much , but she treats me like the nicer i am, she went back to her abusive ex bf a year ago , but have dated off and on . tryed using text your ex back and it failed in july. I dated her for 6 months about a year ago , so we have dated hooked up off and on for the past year, she fights me then wont talk or see me for a month shes done that 3 times the past 9 months. my ex is engaged now as of july , but says she thinks about me all the time but isafraid to call, but she said shes going to regret it, i had her say to my friend , does he think i love him, what does that mean ? Furthermore we got in a big blow out a week ago , she saying its done and she never wants to see me again. I also had her tell me that we meet at the wrong time, shes always texts my female friend asking about me or bitching about me , yesterday, my ex asked her how am i doing and am i talking obout her and did i forget about her, in june she said she loves me wants to be with me have kids, but im pretty sure shes a sociopath so not sure what to do

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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    Okay so what do you want to do about this whole situation?

    From what I read it sounds like a mess! She seems to have you wrapped around her fingers. Re-read what you wrote in a calm state of mind, please tell me that doesn't sound like manipulative behavior. Just get your head on straight before you decide on anything!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    I want to be with her , shes crazy and is a manipulater, i love her shes one of a kind but ive been to good and nice to her. I have not talked to her sense last friday, but she talked to my female friend yesterday askingabout me . So what do i do now

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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    Should i call up her ex and tell him about me and her so he backs off or is that going to make the situation worse ?

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    Here is the truth friend, Do what you think is right but be ready if it backfire and if it does you have to come to terms with the fact that she chose him. You have to be willing to let her go! Sounds awful but it is necessary in order for you to go on with your life. Dont make her choose mostly because if you do she may resent you if she chooses you.

    Your in a pretty messed up situation and I feel for you.

    So give it one last, whatever her decision you respect it and that's that.
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    Man this is a messed up situation. My personal opinion is you should tell this chick to fark off and stop playing with your emotions. Move on and go fark other chicks. It will help you get over her and soon enough you will realize that you wasted so much time on her for nothing. I have been in a seriously messed up situation similar to this but I eventually grew a pair of balls and got rid of her. It was the best decision I ever made and I can kick myself for not doing it sooner. This type of girl will only bring you and your confidence down with her. You will get over her no matter how hard it seems in the beginning. If you do decide to take my advise then you need to cut contact with her completely. No phone calls, no messages, pretty much just ignore her and avoid her altogether. I know its hard a first but it will get easier

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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    One word for this girl...

    NEXT!

    She is emotionally unstable, don't enable her shitty behaviour. Just be totally blunt. If you want me be with me, if you don't then leave me be.

    She's trying to hold you as a back-up to her fucked up relationship. This girl is just not worth it, find a nice normal girl with less mental emotional baggage!

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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    Quote Originally Posted by dvynk View Post
    Should i call up her ex and tell him about me and her so he backs off or is that going to make the situation worse ?
    Do Not call her ex! Do Not Call Her!

    You have a bad case of oneitis here!

    even if you get into a relationship she will be emotionally distant and manipulative! She just isn't worth it... she is too emotionally damaged to enjoy a healthy relationship I'm afraid.

    I really advise you to stay away, she is a game player a manipulator and a time waster.

    I hate to be harsh but I'm trying to save you from yourself here.

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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    O ok thanks dude , but what can i do to get her back , the nc thing ?

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    Default Re: i need help with my ex

    Ive been the back up for a year, but sh t gets less in my favor i had a councilor tell me ots cause shes self sabatages her self, how can i still get her to fark me ?


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