So, I'm new to the forum.
The reason I've signed up is because I'm hopeless with women. I'm the nice guy that ends up being manipulated and when I go to make a move I end up in the friend zone. I'm good at this, at least I'm consistent.
I recently met a girl I liked. Asked her out, we got on great. There was/is a connection. I know she likes me but she is either hiding something or refuses to acknowledge it.
It started a few months ago, and we got to a point where we were seeing each other every day, I was helping her with some things and she didn't have anyone else that would give her time.
Anyway, we had a few days where she opened up to me and I could see she was not used to doing that. She is quite closed off emotionally.
I had read through the forums a bit and found some success with bringing her out of herself, I could see her gaining confidence in herself every time we met, and we got comfortable with each other. We had a night where we discussed our 'friendship' and we kissed.
After that she was a bit distant but we still met each day.
Then I told her my feelings. Big mistake.
I realize that that was the point I got friend zoned. She didn't want to acknowledge my feelings and it suited her to be 'pals' as long as we didn't discuss 'us', although she had brought 'us' up a couple of times. Now shes distancing herself.
I have found myself in this situation many times before and I know that me talking about feelings really stinks of desperation. Hindsight, huh?
I realize I have no game, and that I'm a total wuss.
I'm not sure if I can fix this, she is awesome, but any advice would be appreciated.