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Thread: I'm Michael, hoping for serious help! Wish me luck!

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    Default I'm Michael, hoping for serious help! Wish me luck!

    Hey I'm Michael and last year my first girlfriend broke up with me after 2 years of dating. It destroyed me, and I still think about her every day. Because of this being the worst thing happening to me in my life, I don't want a serious relationship like that any time in the near future at all. I want to be able to pick up girls, I've made out with a couple hot ones since then but I want to be able to actually date. My biggest problem is approaching, especially ones I've never talked to, and another big problem is holding a long conversation and staying comfortable while talking. I can talk a girls ear off if I have known them for a while or if they aren't that attractive, but I need serious help with ones I haven't talked to much. I've been reading this site for about 6 months now, but hopefully someday it will give me the confidence I need to talk to girls. I think I'm literally becoming addicted. That's a good thing though

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    Default Re: I'm Michael, hoping for serious help! Wish me luck!

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post77075

    read it, get over the old gf, and always remember that you are more important than any girl you will ever meet. let me say that again you are the most important person in your relationships. treat every girl the same no matter what and you will do well. you have a lifetime to learn to get girls. above all, do well in school. your education also should be more important to you than any girl you will ever meet

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    Default Re: I'm Michael, hoping for serious help! Wish me luck!

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post

    read it, get over the old gf, and always remember that you are more important than any girl you will ever meet. let me say that again you are the most important person in your relationships. treat every girl the same no matter what and you will do well. you have a lifetime to learn to get girls. above all, do well in school. your education also should be more important to you than any girl you will ever meet
    Thanks for the read, I like it. I guess no matter how much I read here, I obviously can't get any better without trying to talk to girls more. I just need to get rid of the fear. I also sometimes literally have no words to say to girls that I'm trying to talk to.

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    Default Re: I'm Michael, hoping for serious help! Wish me luck!

    It doesn't matter if you have no words! We've all been there at some point or another. But you have to practice practice practice. It's the only way to do it. Practice to the point that it's internalized and automatic. Practice until the words just flow out without thinking. Practice until you recognize ioi's without even consciously thinking about it. Practice until you naturally escalate Kino. You said it yourself, you can't get better without trying to talk to girls more. Your fear is one we've all dealt with and learned how to put aside. So just get out there! You will crash and burn at first. It's guaranteed. Everyone goes through it. But you will quickly internalize everything and become a PU machine
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Default Re: I'm Michael, hoping for serious help! Wish me luck!

    Here are some basic points.

    1. Girls, like everyone, prefer talking about themselves. So talk to them about that.

    2. Hot girls unlike most people, get compliments and sucking up all the time. NEVER do that. I know your mama told you different, but a good rule of thumb is that if you are thinking about saying something complimentary to her -- don't. That doesn't mean call her an ugly cow either. It means talk to her confidently as if she had to win you over.

    3. The most attractive qualities to women, in rough order of importance are: confidence, confidence, confidence and then confidence. Don't be wimpy. Don't be a pussy. Go for it.

    4. Confidence does not mean arrogant jerk. In fact, confidence is the opposite of arrogant jerk. Confidence is conveying the sense that you are obviously, quietly, totally in charge, and that nothing will ever faze you. Be that guy.

    5. Girls are very sexual, probably more even than men. However, they tend to be more indirectly sexual and subtler about it. So "wanna see my huge cock" is not, generally speaking a good approach. I just had a conversation with a girl about yoga. I asked her is she liked to get all hot and sweaty, get in strange body positions, and move and twist and weave until she was exhausted. She ate that up. No doubt we will be doing yoga together very soon.

    6. Its a numbers game. At any one time less than 30% of women are really available. Probably less than half of them will ever be into you. That means you are going to get blown off 85 times out of 100. Get used to it. Move on, you can talk to a lot of women in one night.

    7. The key to moving on with a woman is to move fast with her. No fucking around, no waiting for her to make the move. You make the move. Would you rather be the guy who was too sexually aggressive, or the guy who was a wussy boy who, even though she wanted it bad, you didn't make the move? There is a word for guy number two: virgin. (Of course respect her free will, no doesn't always mean no, but it should always mean no to you.)

    8. The first move to make is to move her. Whenever you meet her, talk to her for five minutes tops. Then say something like "lets move over to this table" or wherever. Move her from where ever you met her somewhere else. Doesn't matter where. If she won't move with you, give it up, and move on. If she won't move, you don't stand a chance. If you do move her, then she is no longer "meeting you", she is "with you", and the game is on.

    OK, that's all for now. Good luck. Forget about the old girlfriend. Be grateful for the great times you had with her, and, as the expression goes -- go fuck ten other women. You'll be amazed how quickly you get over it when you realize how desirable you are.


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