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Thread: New guy with lots of untapped potential

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    Default New guy with lots of untapped potential

    Hello I am 23 and from Pittsburgh and I am avery impressed with the knowledge on this forum, so I decided to join.

    A bit of background info:

    I had pretty low self-esteem during my adolescence, so I never really made friends during that time. Luckily I still had friends from childhood who like me enough to include me in their circle of friends, so I still had some social interaction during that time, but I never "made my own friends" if you know what I mean. I maintained friendships with a few of these friends since college, but my social circle shrunk to about three friends where it sits right now.

    During my college years I mainly focused on myself and I was able to gain confidence. I now actually like myself, so I want to start working on my social skills and make more friends, especially female friends (which I never had).

    I don't have much experience with women beyond drunk make outs and dancing at parties in college. Got a few phone numbers, but they were always impractical to follow up (lived to far away, ect.) Never had a girlfriend or date. I am told that I am very good looking and I get subtle ioi's from girls all time when I go out. I never act on them though because I never no what to say because I don't have good conversational skills. I also have a good job and I have my own place (with a roommate).

    I read the Mystery Method and I learned a lot about theory on conversation and what women find attractive. I didn't try it yet, but I think I would feel like such a phony if I tried it. I don't really care for bars and clubs because the music is too loud and I can't hear people. I prefer approaching people in more normal social situations, I guess what you guys would call the day game. However, I will practice Night Game if you guys think it will help. I wouldn't mind tagging along with someone more experienced in my area.

    Goals (in order of importance):

    1. Make more friends, especially female friends

    2. Become an Alpha Male. Specifically I want to be the guy that can throw awesome parties that people actually want to show up to! I am also starting to compete in powerlifting and I would like to be well known in that scene for networking purposes.

    3. Get an intimate relationship.

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    Default Re: New guy with lots of untapped potential

    Great post man. thanks for that. Look, you are way ahead of the game. You have a strong desire to improve yourself, you are smart and found a system/methods that are logical and work, and you have set very reachable and reasonable three goals. Just keep doing what you are doing brother!
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: New guy with lots of untapped potential

    welcome to the club

    I can relate to you somewhat. I'm 24 and i've recently graduated. Really shy coming out of highschool and early college. Did have a few friends but I'd really hang out with 1 or 2 close friends. I really wanted to improve on my social life, so I told myself senior year I'd go out every week and meet people.

    I had no clue on how to make a move on women, so there were so many times where I screwed up lol. Better now than later, finding this site was gold. Its nice to read about what other people are thinking about and how their approaching "the game".


    Anyways best of luck! Feel free to share your secrets with women if you have any.


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