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Thread: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

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    Default I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    I'm so close to giving up. I have tried many things. No matter what i do it's the same thing either women aren't interested, or they make up some excuse. I hate women and i feel like killing myself. This world is cruel.

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    I'm so close to giving up. I have tried many things. No matter what i do it's the same thing either women aren't interested, or they make up some excuse. I hate women and i feel like killing myself. This world is cruel.
    why give up now? you've put too much effort into this to just give up and quite. wemon aren't everything in life you know. in all reality it isn't much of an accomplishment to just get girls. no matter how many girls you're with they won't make you happy. if pua is making you feel soo depressed then maybe its time to take a break from it and focus on some other goals in your life.

    I hate women and i feel like killing myself. This world is cruel.
    if this makes you feel like taking such extreme measures, you don't need pua, you need a good therapist.

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    Just seems like you need a coach. They'll be able to tell you things that you may have not seen before. It's better to get an objective point of view than to only trust yours since your mind is going through a lot of phases right now. I've went through a lot of weird phases myself so I know. It'll be fine. Trust me.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    I've tried everything i can think of and women still repel me. I've been reading books for about a year, now and have had women flirt with me, and tell me i'm a great guy, then when we get to talking they put me in the friend zone. I'm just sick of it, and i don't have the money for a couch i lost my damn job, and can't seem to get another one. It's like all doors are closed and i'm wore out.

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    Quote Originally Posted by randovich View Post
    I've tried everything i can think of and women still repel me. I've been reading books for about a year, now and have had women flirt with me, and tell me i'm a great guy, then when we get to talking they put me in the friend zone. I'm just sick of it, and i don't have the money for a couch i lost my damn job, and can't seem to get another one. It's like all doors are closed and i'm wore out.
    This is all inner game my friend and less about women... It sounds as though you should sort other areas of your life first... you lost your job, then get another one. I lost mine last year and now I work in marketing for coca-cola, after applying for over 200 jobs!

    If you correct the other areas of your life first, you will be happier, your self confidence will rise and girls will naturally be more attracted to a healthier happier you!

    You won't get anywhere in pua if you're depressed and down... people pick-up on it and its not an attractive quality.

    Chin-up

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    Man you just new to take a few steps back and breathe. Women are not the answer to all your problems. In fact they will just make things worse. Considering you current state of mind it's a good thing you haven't been successful with women. I say this because when you are involve with a woman or multiple women then it can quickly become an emotional rolercoaster. And not emotional as in AFC emotions, but you have a lot more to process. This combined with your current state of mind is a recipe for disaster. You need to focus on other areas of your life in order to make yourself happy. Once you are happy and content with your life, then consider looking for a lady friend.

    Chin up man, women are never worth the thoughts of suicide.

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    Quote Originally Posted by randovich View Post
    I've tried everything i can think of and women still repel me. I've been reading books for about a year, now and have had women flirt with me, and tell me i'm a great guy, then when we get to talking they put me in the friend zone. I'm just sick of it, and i don't have the money for a couch i lost my damn job, and can't seem to get another one. It's like all doors are closed and i'm wore out.
    I can tell you now that I was jobless, living with my mother, and lost my car. And I still had regular visits and met new women regularly when I went out. I even had a gf at one point who had a job at Lockheed Martin, traveled to Japan and Spain regularly, had her own house, car, and even a motorcycle. She even took me to the mountains in West Virginia to go Snowboarding.

    You don't need to pay for a coach. That's what we are here for. Those kinds of coaches want enormous amounts of money because they chose to make this field their primary source of income. For us, we usually have other sources of income so this is more of a hobby. (Like I think it should be anyways.) So just let us know about any specific experiences you have had recently and we will critique you. When it comes to friend zone issues they are usually clear cut solutions. You can check out my post on qualification here. Check it out and it may help give you an edge when it comes to avoiding the friend zone.

    P.S. I really should start charging for my advice lol. :P
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    Look if you wanna die then die, killing urself is just a way out an escape, u will not gain anything in death a lot of things can still be altered if u stay alive. and just so u know The reason u always get stuck in he friendzone is cuz u don't appear alpha and don't escalate properly u saying something like that only proves that u are weak.


    GROW STRONGER!
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Look if you wanna die then die, killing urself is just a way out an escape, u will not gain anything in death a lot of things can still be altered if u stay alive. and just so u know The reason u always get stuck in he friendzone is cuz u don't appear alpha and don't escalate properly u saying something like that only proves that u are weak.


    GROW STRONGER!
    OMG XAVIER!!! LMFAO!!!! I wouldn't want to be your son.
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    Default Re: I don't believe anymore... I use to believe in PUA. Close to giving up.

    Alot of stuff is in your own head (im talking in generalizations).

    Half the time you may screw up but thats when u keep at it. When i thought "oh man i did it. That was too far. She itotally hates me now" i just let it be and STILL did the things i learned from pickup. Then guess what? That girl i thought hated me? Next time i see her, she got the doggy look.

    It didnt make sense to me.

    But it worked! It took time to see the fruits but they came eventually.

    This is the main problem why some guys on the this forum will always be AFC. they are too worried about doing things that make sense to them... take a chance, keep at the game for longer than feels comfortable. It will make sense to you soon. Trust me. Trust all of us
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
    Oscar Wilde



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