Hi. You can call me ShortStuff. I'm new here.
Here's the skinny: I've been an AFC virgin nerd practically since I hit puberty, I've had enough, and I want to take this new year to grow a pair of steel balls and get laid with the women I want.
I've been an introvert for a good chunk of my life, owing to the fact that my interactions with strangers tend many times to feel unnatural, awkward, or boring, with all of these becoming worse the more interested I am in the stranger - anxiety about getting the outcome I want.
It's often hard enough for me to make friends, much less convince girls I'm worth spending a night or many with. You can probably imagine I didn't have much incentive to improve when my reward for trying was typically seeing another guy's face plastered to that of the girl I liked.
So I've decided that as a starting point in conquering my phobias and learning how to seduce women, I'll make cold approaches when I go out at least every weekend, meeting and getting to know total strangers.
This where I need you guys. Setting about any task without the proper knowledge and tools is a good way to waste a healthy ego, not to mention a lot of time and money. I need the basics of game, yes, but I would also like to know where to get started given that I do not want to:
- Be knowingly harmful or manipulative to myself or others
- Use "sneaky" techniques or "tricks" to get laid or generate arousal
- Spend copious amounts of money
- Be dishonest or disingenuous in my approach
- Continue being excessively analytical in general, especially about game
Yes, I want to relax, have fun learning and practicing game, and become an honest yet successful womanizer.
Where do I start?