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    Default chick im dating said i want to be treated like a man

    Im dating my ex again , she says she likes to be treated like a man . What does thats mean im so dam confused. And also she says she doesn't want to have sex with anyone rite now.I alsokeep getting the just be my friend for rite now crap , she calls me a few times a day. So what does this all mean im confused. She just broke up with her abusive ex like 2 weeks ago btw .

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    Default Re: chick im dating said i want to be treated like a man

    Quote Originally Posted by dvynk View Post
    Im dating my ex again , she says she likes to be treated like a man . What does thats mean im so dam confused. And also she says she doesn't want to have sex with anyone rite now.I alsokeep getting the just be my friend for rite now crap , she calls me a few times a day. So what does this all mean im confused. She just broke up with her abusive ex like 2 weeks ago btw .
    Stop giving her what she wants and freeze her out.
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: chick im dating said i want to be treated like a man

    Ya but how do i freeze her out? and what does she mean she wants to be treated like a man ?
    Last edited by dvynk; 01-15-2013 at 04:49 AM. Reason: spelling

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    Default Re: chick im dating said i want to be treated like a man

    I LoL'd when I saw the title. I thought you were dealing with a tranny.

    In all seriousness, it really means she wants to be friends as in "roll with the boys" OR "be one of the guys" OR "hang out with the guys."

    Next time, she says she wants to be treated like a man, just joke and say "Then grow a beard, throw on some overalls" and take her to a Strip Club.

    Although I am not a proponent of spousal abuse, you are dealing with "damaged goods." Sounds like she is going out with you more out of comfort, rather than attraction. Having said that, you run a huge risk of being "one of the girls" as you end up as a friend listening to her vent.

    Like Elitist said, do a Freeze Out. Brush up on some PUA terms if you taking the art of attraction seriously. But to make it easier on you this time. It means deliberating but casually ignoring her, which tactically causes her to seek your validation. You ignore her by not replying to her text and answering her calls.

    Besides, why are you dating your ex? She is an ex for a reason. Right now you devalue yourself by even dating her. So do a Freeze Out to display higher value. Start going out with other women that are not damaged goods and let her see you out with other women that are hotter than her.

    Edit: Okay, I read some old posts of yours and they are all about this same ex. You are not going to like what I'm going to say, but you need to get over her first and foremost. First of all, you are not in love. You are obsessed with a sociopathic manipulating woman who gravitates towards abusive men. In all honesty, this is not PUA jurisdiction. Learning the art of PUA is learning to be attractive and being desperate, obsessed and needy IS NOT attactive. You need to get your head on straight, get over her, she ain't worth it and she definitely is not the only woman in the world. If you are so obsessed over a sociopath? What does this say about you? Think about it. When you are ready to move on and date other women and take the PUA bizness seriously then come back here. Until then, this belongs to "Dear Abby." or "Dr. Phil."

    The question you need to start asking yourself is NOT how to get my Ex back, BUT how to let my ex go.

    I will leave you with this advice. Remember it.

    Being in love is seeing the other person happy (even if it means letting her go). Being in lust is you need that person to make you happy (and can't let go).

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    Default Re: chick im dating said i want to be treated like a man

    I am not even sure what this means? Does she want to chug beer and go to the football game?

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    Default Throw that fish back!

    I fully agree with Mortal on this one. With how this thing is looking right now, she will only transform you into a friend and a tool. In addition to that, if it does get to that point where the relationship is fully based on comfort and she gets her fair fill of it, I am certain that she will dispose of you and move on.

    In all of the resources I have read, a recurring theme comes up: Mindset. Right now, your mindset is clicked to dependence on this woman. In order to be successful, you have to be a man and go about with this relationship and any other woman knowing that there are billions more out in the sea.

    The reason jerks are successful with women is not because women like to get treated like garbage. It's because jerks do not become attached to women. They know there are more women out there, so failure is never a reality for them. Once you accept this, you will see a whole change in your approach and confidence around women.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: chick im dating said i want to be treated like a man

    I'm pretty sure she wants to take it in the bum. That's how I see it anyways
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