Throw that fish back!
I fully agree with Mortal on this one. With how this thing is looking right now, she will only transform you into a friend and a tool. In addition to that, if it does get to that point where the relationship is fully based on comfort and she gets her fair fill of it, I am certain that she will dispose of you and move on.
In all of the resources I have read, a recurring theme comes up: Mindset. Right now, your mindset is clicked to dependence on this woman. In order to be successful, you have to be a man and go about with this relationship and any other woman knowing that there are billions more out in the sea.
The reason jerks are successful with women is not because women like to get treated like garbage. It's because jerks do not become attached to women. They know there are more women out there, so failure is never a reality for them. Once you accept this, you will see a whole change in your approach and confidence around women.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X