Re: need help with regaining my mindsets
Friend zoned usually means you aren't sexual enough. Either you aren't completely comfortable being sexual with them or you tend to forget to be because you are preoccupied with having fun. Regardless you should be more flirtsy and comfortable in showing you have desires. As long as you do it in a tasteful, non-perverted way then there's no way they can just see you as a friend.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."