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    Default need help with regaining my mindsets

    Before this year, i studied PUA for over 2 years, i became a great person. My confidence was sky rocketing, i was untouchable. But then i took a vacation, came back, and stopped working on myself. I was just friend-zoned 2 times by different girls. so i decided to come by again. and improve. Friendzone farking sucks! to the max. I am amazingly confident still. However, i lost a lot of my mindsets, ALOT of them. And was very confused as to which ones i was missing. I am still very Alpha amongst men and women, however i get friendzoned cuz i show too much emotions. that is my problem. I feel somewhat beta now.

    check out my other thread please, theres my story of the girl im dealing with atm. im heart broken.

    So i decieded to join here (;
    also add me on facebook. hassan newman. search that in facebook bar and you will find me (;

    Just to have someone to discuss things with, someone who understand pua. (; thanks alot for reading! keep playin the game my brother alpha males!

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    Friend zoned usually means you aren't sexual enough. Either you aren't completely comfortable being sexual with them or you tend to forget to be because you are preoccupied with having fun. Regardless you should be more flirtsy and comfortable in showing you have desires. As long as you do it in a tasteful, non-perverted way then there's no way they can just see you as a friend.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    damn... thanks alot!
    thats my biggest problem, i get stuck in the friendzone. all the time. and suddenly im they're best friend. helps social value a lot. but not much comes out of it. I have like a MILLION female friends. lmao. just wanna know how to create that sexual Tension, i just didn't wanna take it too far and look like a rapist, etc.

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    Quote Originally Posted by haszan1172 View Post
    damn... thanks alot!
    thats my biggest problem, i get stuck in the friendzone. all the time. and suddenly im they're best friend. helps social value a lot. but not much comes out of it. I have like a MILLION female friends. lmao. just wanna know how to create that sexual Tension, i just didn't wanna take it too far and look like a rapist, etc.
    Humor and charm, mate. That's how you avoid looking like a rapist

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    haha thanks! and yah im funny as fuck, charming too. must be somthing else. i just need to be alot more touchy i guess. but im very touchy already.

    BTW out of those female friends, alot of them like me, maybe some of them secretly too. guys friendzone girls too. but they're only normal/average looking. or HORRIBLE looking. the ugliest/normal ones chase me, WTF. someone tell me why that is?

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    Quote Originally Posted by haszan1172 View Post
    haha thanks! and yah im funny as fark, charming too. must be somthing else. i just need to be alot more touchy i guess. but im very touchy already.

    BTW out of those female friends, alot of them like me, maybe some of them secretly too. guys friendzone girls too. but they're only normal/average looking. or HORRIBLE looking. the ugliest/normal ones chase me, WTF. someone tell me why that is?
    Because no one chases them. If ten beautiful women a day came up to you because they're sexually interested, why would you ever go up to a woman yourself? Now, ugly women don't get chased so they have to put in more effort.

    If you're already funny and charming, perhaps you're not flirty enough. Try being more direct.

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    thats where i need to work on! being more flirty! thanks for the heads up! and haha. yep thats true. i thought maybe i did something right with them thats why, but i guess they're challenged.

    And being more direct, i got that down. just being more flirty and better with sexual comments and jokes. those are the steps i will be taking. thanks a lot. best forums ever!

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    and also, is there a thread for being sexual? just dont wanna start too early or too late. thats where i need to perfect myself. once i am good with that. i will perfect everything else, and help everyone else out. but first i got to get my own self straight. and guys always ask me for advice, i get em laid, w.e. but when it comes to looking at my own problems, i suck, cant think.

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    Quote Originally Posted by haszan1172 View Post
    and also, is there a thread for being sexual? just dont wanna start too early or too late. thats where i need to perfect myself. once i am good with that. i will perfect everything else, and help everyone else out. but first i got to get my own self straight. and guys always ask me for advice, i get em laid, w.e. but when it comes to looking at my own problems, i suck, cant think.
    Yeah, I know that. Analyzing yourself is much more difficult.

    Depending on your style and goals, there is no being too sexual early. As Bad-boy explained, the quicker you get sexual, the more she will think of you as a man to fark. If you get sexual immediately, you'll become a farkbuddy. If you become sexual after attraction and comfort, a boyfriend. If you don't, a friend. (not his exact words, but it's basically what he said).

    oh btw, it could be that you indeed do things right with ugly women, which you don't do with pretty women. A lot of guys treat hot women differently and non-alpha. Treat them all the same.

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    Default Re: need help with regaining my mindsets

    OH MAN. THAT SEXUAL THING U EXPLAINED. WOW. BLEW MY MIND. DAMNN. i want to give u the biggest hug and kiss ur hand lol :/. will help alot. thanks EXACTLY why i got friendzoned. no sexuality. I flirt like a monster, joke, etc, very very charming. but no sexuality. i guess i was just afraid to do that. i will work on that. u da best! thanks a million times.


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