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Thread: Hello. I'm new. How do i motivate myself?

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    Default Hello. I'm new. How do i motivate myself?

    Hi,

    I'm new here and thought i would say hello and tell everyone a little about myself. I have been living abroad for quite a long time and enjoyed alot of attention from girls for the simple fact that i'm from somewhere else and they are curious about me.

    I guess i really did enjoy too much attention from girls over the last few years as i find it hard to laugh and act excited by new girls that come and talk to me like i used to. Whether or not i'm interested, i come across as faking that i'm interested. And perhaps that's not far from the truth. Even with the most gorgeous girls, i find it hard to not act fake when talking with them and even find it boring most the time.

    Does anyone have any advice?

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    Default Re: Hello. I'm new. How do i motivate myself?

    Yes, don't pretend. If they're boring, they're boring. If they're cool, they're cool. You could even draw joy and genuine interest from the fact that you could get these girls. Think of what it'd be like to achieve your goal with the girl you're interacting with from time to time. That might make you some more enthusiastic.

    Motivation comes from the inside. Do something that awakens motivational feelings (such as horniness, loneliness and desire). Avoid logic, that doesn't motivate anyone to do anything. EG: You could spend some time about the girl you couldn't get, and how pissed you were at the guy who did get her. Then use that emotion to go get the next girl.

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    Default Re: Hello. I'm new. How do i motivate myself?

    Don't jack-off for a month. That will get your motivation going.

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    Default Re: Hello. I'm new. How do i motivate myself?

    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Hello. I'm new. How do i motivate myself?

    Man , get wing with you .That will help you yo motivate each other . GL


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