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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    Could you guy's give me two or three openers to try this weekend.
    I used the opinion openers last weekend but I want something quicker and more to the point. That routine is a bit long and quite difficult to shout in a club.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    You just need anything to say to start a conversation. In a busy and very loud place I go with something super short. One that has worked for me is "have you seen my friend?". I say I'm looking for my friend that I'm supposed to meet. I give them a vivid description of a very tall, handsome guy. It gets them imaging him! Then I say he is usually with some ditsy fashion model type girl (unless one of the group looks like a ditsy fashion model). This gets them a bit disappointed and they focus back on me. Then if the target seems interested in me I take her to a quieter area to talk.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    Not bad. I'll give it a shot. Anymore quick openers that you've found effective?

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    Use something from your own life. Something really interesting but not too controversial. It could have happened long ago and far away but re frame it in today and here. It should be something that you had a strong emotional reaction to so you can relive that moment as you tell the story. Another favorite of mine when I used scripted openers is the awesome day bit. You tell them you had an awesome day. You have a list of great things that happened to you. Embed dhv's in your story. "When I got to the office today my secretary told me the long boring meeting I was supposed to attend was canceled! Then I went out for lunch and ..." You get the idea.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    I like that. Both are better than those opinion openers I used last week. Felt like I was doing a Q&A at times last week.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    Whatever you do make it genuine! Nothing wrong with getting opinions as long as you really want to know their opinion and the subject means something to you.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    I don't and it didn't
    I could ask them about something I care about
    But talking sports probably wouldn't get me laid.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    Quote Originally Posted by The Guru View Post
    I like that. Both are better than those opinion openers I used last week. Felt like I was doing a Q&A at times last week.
    To add on to the "have you seen my friend?" thing, I personally like to tell people I'm looking for someone, and I'll describe either myself or the person I'm talking to. Most of the time they'll have no idea you're talking about them or yourself. It's hilarious. As an opener, I don't know how the girl would react, since I've never tried it as an opener, but it's a good warmup to talking to people if you feel you're getting in your head. Also, I read that on one approach you psyched yourself up? Don't do that. It doesn't work and you only get in your head and you're bound to mess up. Don't even think about it. Just do... about it

    As for good places to start gaming, I recommend clubs. Yes, it's loud and hard to hear, but everyone is drunk (even yourself), so you're more relaxed, and since it's loud it gives you an excuse to get close and do some Kino. That's just me though.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    Didn't really get a chance to work on my game last weekend.
    Hopefully I'll make up for it this weekend. I've got a few new ideas
    and I've got some different things I want to try out.
    Do you think it's best approaching girls on there own (at the bar or in the smoking area)
    or approaching them in a group? Last time I did both and there wasn't much difference
    as i didn't get anywhere either time.
    Also how do you guy's deal with Approach Anxiety?
    I managed a few approaches and they did get a little easier the more I did
    but now I feel the anxiety is back just as strong as before,
    I relied on alcohol to get me through it last time which worked OK
    Just it's unpractical to walk around smashed 24/7.

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    Default Re: I'm just starting out in this game

    this is an opener i invented the other day. i aproach a group of HB's displaying all the alpha male body language traits. i then procede to interupt there conversation i do not smile or act to keen to be in there prescence. i tell them this " hi girls, this may seem like a strange request but last night i got descended on by a pack of girls who decided to paint my nail's. however they only got away with painting one". at this point i raise my hand neutralizing myself as a threat showing them my nail. i then say "so between all you girls you must have something to remove it?" once ive said this and i have there attention i can now smile and convey that i am fun. however at this point in the set i pay none of them any more attention than the next. by saying that line i demonstrate a few things. that one i am fun and two that i am desirable to women and three it demonstrates social proof. in this particular field report a beutifull hairdresser pulls out a nail file and proceeds to remove the nail varnish as i sit there like a high king. but its not over yet i have to neg my target. so as the girl is removing the varnish i sharply pull away my hand pretending she has hurt me with the file and then in an half joking way acuse her of drinking to much trying to evoke laughter from her friends. within 15 minutes of running the rest of the mystery method sequence i get a Number Close


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