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    DaVinci89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default New member, social anxiety, looking for advice

    Hey guys, I'm happy to join this forum, I got lot of respect for guys who can be successfull with girls, seriously I just don't get it how you can be so good with girls, it's unbelievable! I'm not ass licking or anything, it's sincere.

    Now let's start with a little introduction, I'm 24 years old and I've been reading PUA articles for several years, so I am familiar with the general theory. John Alexander, The Game and another french book.

    For the last 2 years, after my ex left me, I really got a sh1tty life; no sex, tons of rejection/friendzone and now i keep isolating myself. My main problem is that even if I attract women with my artistic skills/reputation, I am really bad when it comes to approach a woman. I am really one of the most socially awkward guy around. I get tons of ioi, tons of EC, but I really don't know what to do when it comes to approach, escalade, get her comfortable, etc. Most of the time I just go into independant mode to not risk to look needy or anything awkward.

    My main goal is to get rid of this social anxiety/awkwardness to eventualy meet a girlfriend. I was thinking by starting to go out and talk to random people first. At least 1 person per day.

    If you got any advice, anything I would be glad to hear it because I am not sure if I am doing the right thing, thank you!

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    Blistex is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: New member, social anxiety, looking for advice

    Try this thread:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/3...versation.html

    and remember there is a lesson to be learned in every single rejection, don't let it get you down. You will feel like crap with each one but it gets easier as you get each new one under your belt. Don't let your head drive you into isolating yourself.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Flyboy86 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: New member, social anxiety, looking for advice

    If you are looking for a total inner game overhaul look at Neil Strauss' "rules of the game". He has the style life challenge in there amd it step by step builds your inner game, self worth, and approach skills. I thinks it's under 10 bucks for the kindle edition. I liked it, it seems to focus on not just girls, but having a better life/career. A bit of it might be outdated but it's worth a look.


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