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    Default First time in the field - any suggestions for original material??

    Hi guys,

    I'm a total novice at pickup, but I'm in my 30's, have decent social skills and have been around the block a few times. Once I Isolate, the escalation and closing stuff comes pretty naturally

    My challenge is meeting and approaching women, especially in a public place

    So I've read a few books about pickup (mostly inner game stuff), and I've seen season 1 of the pickup artist lol. Basically, I understand the essential theory and want to give it a shot, and I'm ready to go out on the town tomorrow night. As long as I put it out there and try, I'll consider the night a victory. Whatever happens

    But even from what little I know, I can spot a wannabe PUA a mile away and I really don't want to be one of those losers. I see so many guys approach groups of girls attempting to hi-5 them, asking "who lies more, men or women" or "did you see the fight outside" and getting nothing but mockery back from the women, who have undoubtedly heard it all before and know they're being gamed

    There is some great material in the threads on here, but if anyone can suggest a routines guide that's relatively FRESH that I can learn in a day and use the same night, I'd feel a lot more confident going into my first foray

    Appreciate any suggestions guys, wish me luck!

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    Default Re: First time in the field - any suggestions for original material??

    Seriously, don't worry so much if it's your first time going out and trying this stuff out. Throw out a mixed bag. Try some lame ass opinion openers, like "who lies more," "who cheats more," etc.

    One of my favorite indirect openers is to draw on my wing or else grab my phone and text with a friend for a minute. Then approach a group and ask for their opinion for your friend. It doesn't matter what it is, but be like, "My friend is having girl problems..." There's an awesome opener in here by Stigwart (I think) that asks who's more observant men or woman. It's a great opener for a mixed set and can even help you AMOG guys if you want.

    Try a couple direct openers. If you have solid inner game they can work wonders. If they don't work they're a great learning getting blown out is a great learning experience.

    Just go out and have a good time. Don't go out with any expectations.

    Good luck!
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    Default Re: First time in the field - any suggestions for original material??

    Quote Originally Posted by Arrowfish View Post
    Hi guys,

    I'm a total novice at pickup, but I'm in my 30's, have decent social skills and have been around the block a few times. Once I Isolate, the escalation and closing stuff comes pretty naturally

    My challenge is meeting and approaching women, especially in a public place

    So I've read a few books about pickup (mostly inner game stuff), and I've seen season 1 of the pickup artist lol. Basically, I understand the essential theory and want to give it a shot, and I'm ready to go out on the town tomorrow night. As long as I put it out there and try, I'll consider the night a victory. Whatever happens

    But even from what little I know, I can spot a wannabe PUA a mile away and I really don't want to be one of those losers. I see so many guys approach groups of girls attempting to hi-5 them, asking "who lies more, men or women" or "did you see the fight outside" and getting nothing but mockery back from the women, who have undoubtedly heard it all before and know they're being gamed

    There is some great material in the threads on here, but if anyone can suggest a routines guide that's relatively FRESH that I can learn in a day and use the same night, I'd feel a lot more confident going into my first foray

    Appreciate any suggestions guys, wish me luck!
    hey, I'm Kino. I'm on my phon or I would post the link, but look up my endless openers post.


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