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    Default Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    Hey guys, I'm new here. I just started a new job, last week i noticed a cashier who from what I've heard is a little shy. Saw her glance at me a couple of times when i walked by, just wondering what i should do? Shes up at the front while i'm on the sales floor so there's really no way for me to casually mosey up to the front and talk to her, other then me actually going out of my way to walk up and talk. Haven't introduced my self yet, I was thinking of just doing that, asking her when she works, how long shes been there, where she goes to school, etc.. and possibly just asking her out to like lunch or a movie right off the bat. what do you guys think? should i just go for it, or keep walking up and talking to her until were a little more friendly? And more importantly how to get more friendly so its not awkward the second time i walk up? any help is appreciated, Thanks!

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    I personally recommend not hanging around her and asking questions. This will lower your value and possibly get you fired. Err on the side of caution in the workplace. Start out by making eye contact and smiling at her. I know this is hard with shy girls. There must be somewhere in the building that is common to you both. Break room or timeclock? Don't stalk her though. Wait for a natural meeting and say hello. Be patient. This is not a night club. You will see her every day so no need to rush.

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    That's one of the problems though. I think she only works weekends since that's the only time I've seen her. and while i work weekends there's always that week gap in between. possibly try and nonchalantly take my break at the same time? I don't know. but even then there's probably going to be loads of people there. There's nothing wrong with just walking up, introducing, and the asking politely? Right? and if it's a no, then just leave it alone. Eh?

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    Hi comrade!

    Personally i will NOT go to her and ask for go out. As they said, u loosing value. Also i like that about the lookingw and smile, if she smile back, just find an excuse for go and talk to her. From there:
    - build a confort zone (don't be an FBI guy with a lot of standart questions)
    - Get info about her, be smart and unpredictable. With info u will know better what she like...
    - analyze your options before to make a move. As they said before is a workmate, so no rush!

    Remember that a PUA is the exception of the rule

    Hope that i could help u

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    Alright thanks guys, any other advice? Ive got work tomorrow with her i believe. If not, ill keep you posted on any new things that come up. Cheers!

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    Can't wait for see what happen that day of work!!! keep us updated men!!!!

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    Damn, I asked one of my co-workers and She possibly has a boyfriend. and if she doesn't the ex-boyfriend in question works there as well. It's going to be a long and tedious pursuit, but it's worth it? right? Hah, I'll just try to be her friend for now. see where it takes me.c

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    I think I've got it, now i just have to not mess it up. waited it out this Sunday just to kinda see how she acted when I was around, noticed she was fluffing her hair after i lined up behind her for clock in. And at the end of my shift while I walking toward the exit, she looked at me, looked away, and got up to walk right passed me only for her to look down as we got within talking distance. A little frustrating, what do you guys think? I'm a little confused.

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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    I think you just need to be yourself in this situation and let things happen as they do. Don't worry about lines or routines in this situation just be natural when you see her. Greet her with a warm smile and make eye contact. Most girls just want a man who's a man with high confidence and energy. Make some friends as well in the work place, there's nothing better than having people who know and like you, plus if there are other girls then you have preselection which is a very powerful attraction switch.

    I know this sounds pretty general but in this situation it seems like the most appropriate advice I can give. I would also say to keep your options open. Speak to other girls and game them as well, I've seen plenty men who are good with girls but let their skills go to waste because they aimed for one girl, she wasn't attracted and in turn the man was a wreck afterwards. You need to be mentally strong, chicks smell weakness from a mile away. So to summarise: Don't put all your faith into one girl, in fact never do this and you will be just fine.
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    Default Re: Asking a shy girl out at work, How to approach?

    "The Man" is right. We can only help you so far. The rest has to be learned by seat of the pants experience. When a set or a relationship goes south look back to where you lost them and make a mental note. "I shouldn't say/do that again!"
    The seas are full of fish. You hook one and try to reel it in. If it gets away you bait again and wait for another one to bite!


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