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Thread: Hello brothers... just getting into this and looking to improve

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    Default Hello brothers... just getting into this and looking to improve

    I'll keep this relatively short and painless...

    I've been 'single' for a little over a year now... I was/am married... I guess separated is what we are. She asked for a divorce and hasn't filed it... to my knowledge. That's a whole other problem I guess that needs to get resolved. As far as I'm concerned, there is no way we are getting back together. Anyway, I've had pedestrian luck with ladies and looking to get better.

    I started on POF and OkCupid a couple weeks ago and it got me looking around and I found this forum. My biggest problem is probably the confidence to go up to a random girl. I'm on they shyer side... Anyway, that's me in a nutshell.

    There goes my nice boring intro for you guys.

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    Default Re: Hello brothers... just getting into this and looking to improve

    yo that's a bit lame to here, but on the bright side it lead you here (y)

    there's alot of threads on Approach Anxiety, i'm still getting over mine myself but don't underestimate the search button, everything you need is there

    try checking out the newbie guide by virgil and various other guides / threads around

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    Default Re: Hello brothers... just getting into this and looking to improve

    That was all of us in a nutshell.

    Forget okcupid and pof for now (they are crutches for people with no game and "goodies" for people that have established game. you don't have any yet, so just drop the online dating stuff until you have some real-life game). If you have 3 extra hours in a day, do this:

    1. Hour 1 - Read a foundational product like mystery method, blueprint, magic bullets, etc. Don't be a sissy and use the PDF version. Instead, get a PHYSICAL copy and a highlighter and make notes. DAILY. Get ONE book and stick with it for 3 months without doing what you are probably inclined to do which is read 20 books in 20 days. Read and study ONE book.

    2. Hour 2 - Go to the mall, library, bars, grocery stores, or even the local whorehouse and FORCE yourself to approach at least 5 girls with the intent of getting a phone number. Forget escalating past that at first.

    3. Hour 3 - Come back and re-read your book, try to learn what you did right and what you did wrong. Make notes and start to program yourself to correct.

    Do this for 30 days, and the world will start to open up before your very eyes
    - CR

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    Default Re: Hello brothers... just getting into this and looking to improve

    Thanks for the replies. Not to start off with excuses, but I kind of will... I will be traveling for work in a couple days. While out, I will be working brutal hours (6pm to 6am), 6 days a week... only night off is Thursday night. This is supposed to go through May. So I don't expect to go out very much at all. I do expect some down time though during those hours where I can read. I will be doing a ton of that in whatever time I have free. I haven't done that kind of thing before, so I don't know how my body will take it... but I will certainly do what I can to study up and practice.

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    Default Re: Hello brothers... just getting into this and looking to improve

    No excuses, play like a champion! haha but seriously, if you put this stuff off you will never get into it. It will take a few dozen to a few hundred approaches before you start to really figure things out and have consistent success. You can't win if you don't play. I have a job that travels alot as well and yes sometimes I get bogged down. At least try to do it for one day a week for a few hours. You don't always have to night game and you don't always have to day game. Just get out there any way you can!


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