Hi everyone. I recently got dumped. I met an attractive girl in my friend's baby birthday party and we started to date. Since I was extremely busy these days (and lack of skills), I acted aloof. But she still went out with me and acted proactively. Until recently I thought I should give her some commitment so I asked if she wants to be my girlfriend (ya, I know, I am a fool). She refused but still went out with me several times and then we no longer see each other since last week.
I know I made a lot of mistakes so I start to learn this kind of skills. I wonder if there are ways to get her back or this kind of thinking is wrong in the first place.