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    Default A new guy who just got dumped.

    Hi everyone. I recently got dumped. I met an attractive girl in my friend's baby birthday party and we started to date. Since I was extremely busy these days (and lack of skills), I acted aloof. But she still went out with me and acted proactively. Until recently I thought I should give her some commitment so I asked if she wants to be my girlfriend (ya, I know, I am a fool). She refused but still went out with me several times and then we no longer see each other since last week.

    I know I made a lot of mistakes so I start to learn this kind of skills. I wonder if there are ways to get her back or this kind of thinking is wrong in the first place.

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    Default Re: A new guy who just got dumped.

    My experience has taught me to let the woman initiate the move from a casual relationship to a committed & exclusive BF/GF one.

    Getting her back? First, were you guys intimate? If you were, then give her space, talk to her but stay aloof. Be the guy you were when she wanted to be w/you. If NOT intimate, she may think you are too needy if you want to jump from dating to commitment w/o developing the in between stuff.
    Last edited by EMSaenz; 03-09-2013 at 09:13 AM. Reason: typo
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: A new guy who just got dumped.

    Not very intimate. She isn't going out with me any more. I think my biggest mistake was to let her decide after I asked. And when she hesitated, I seemed to be panic and say a lot of nonsense words (nice but useless words).

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    Default Re: A new guy who just got dumped.

    I think I had a good opening, but got stuck in the middle and now we can only be friends.

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    Default Re: A new guy who just got dumped.

    well that sucks but there are alot of resources on the site that can probally help u out


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