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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    You described my love life pretty well.

    I got into the pua junior year of high school and I became a much better person and senior year had a girlfriend for 5 months. It was great until she dumped me after 5 months.

    I shut the door on pua for 4 years, until I came back to it a couple months ago.

    I gotta get out of this rut.

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    Some simple advice my friend. Be yourself, but don't be afraid to operate outside of your comfort zone. Go out to malls, coffee shops, parks etc and just practice. Practice on girls in class, walking to and from class etc. Don't me mindful of the outcome, be mindful of where you are right now, and where to you want to go from here. You don't have to change who you are to pickup women, but you have to understand that you have to put yourself into situations where you're going to meet women. It's as simple as that. Nobody will come a knockin on your door. To relate to you, here's a story of mine:

    I graduated from a university already, and then moved to Illinois. I changed my major once I graduated, and I'm now attending a community college 40 minutes from my house. I'm a gamer, and I didn't know anyone when moving out here to Illinois except for 2 family members. What did I do? I put myself out there. Before and after class I approach women by myself. I'll go to malls and approach women by myself. I'll go to places to eat and approach women by myself. So far I've had much success. I've gotten to a point where I'm looking and approaching women for my benefit; to see what they have to offer to me. I'm not looking at the end result, I'm looking to see how I can have fun/become the best version of myself.

    Good luck soldier!

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    I would also add - what is the girl going to get out of the relationship? I can't see many girls wanting to hang around a guy to watch him play xbox...

    A male/female relationship is a two-way deal right? So there has to be some give as well as some take... What are you going to give to the relationship, to be the sort of guy that cool girls want to hang out with?

    Hey, I was exactly the same, I spent my evenings at home playing the piano and writing computer software... I got really good at them both, but no girls knocked on the door.

    Now I'm in my 30s, but decided to sort my life out. I started to go clubbing, dancing, and the 20-something hotties roll up and ask me to dance with them!

    We make lifestyle decisions, which, hey, affect our lifestyle...

    Good luck man, I mean that sincerely.

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    Never give up what you love doing for the sake of a woman. Your goal is to find a woman that accepts you for who you are. Take this with a grain of salt of course. If she is going to sacrifice, you have to sacrifice too, but that doesn't mean giving something you like to do up. He has plenty to offer besides playing xbox, and whatever girl he lands is fortunate for that. Sure he may not play xbox as often when he has a girl, but he should never have to give it up. At least that's not the type of woman I'm looking for, someone who makes me give up hobbies I like doing (as long as they're not self destructive)

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    That's very true, one shouldn't change completely - But what you describe is a give/take situation isn't it? I haven't given up playing the piano either! As you say, there's a little compromise on both sides. I just had the feeling that perhaps he isn't quite ready to compromise yet? But then we reap what we sow...

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    Thanks for all the support guys.

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    I already got into pua stuff once before and it worked out great, and I changed a lot. I got into the natural game and some inner game stuff and ingrained beliefs like "I'm just as good as everyone else" and "I don't have to prove anything to anyone". These were powerful changes because for a lot of grade school I was the weird kid that got picked on and I had real low self esteem and at times felt very socially inferior (I still do soometimes)

    Anyway, because of my changes I met a girl through a friend and thought she was out of my league until a bud told me to that she liked me and he pushed me to make a move, which I finally did. She became my girlfriend by after a couple months my old insecurities came creeping back because if I dressed a little sloppy I was scared that she would react negatively. Eventually I slid back into my old self and she dumped me.

    I know for a fact I can get girls because I've done it before. But with my first girlfriend I knew she liked me first because a bud of mine who has game told me she did and even then he had to push me to make a move. Had he not done it I would have assumed that she was just friendly. In fact if a girl responds positively I always assume she's just nice.

    How can I reignite the charismatic, suave, and lovable person I know I can be. How can I be my own coach and take a proactive approach. Essentially how do I get my game back?!

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    I already responded to you in your other thread. Go out and make approaches.

    1. Go out
    2. Have fun
    3. Make Approaches
    4. Make mistakes
    5. Learn from mistakes
    6. Get better
    7. Become a boss

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    I think I get you. I'm very similar. I sometimes forget to be sexual and take everything she does as friendly and nonchalant.

    You have to become comfortable with your sexual self. You do that by accepting that you are a man with desires and do not have to apologize for that. And understand the game is not over if she finds out you actually want to have sex.

    You'll get it back with practice, but definitely become comfortable again with being sexual with women. They like it. Trust me. Only if her words AND physical language are rejection should you eject. Otherwise she's just playing hard to get.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Want to get a Girlfriend (in college) but I don't like people.

    i like video games and i hate clubs and anything else thats boring. what a waste of time and energy im just gonna sit here and play video games at home i dont like people


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