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Thread: Need advise asap about girl in class (I have her number)

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    Default Need advise asap about girl in class (I have her number)

    OK so im in college. Our teacher asked us to trade numbers with a few people in class so that we would be able to ask classmates for help or whatever. I traded with a chick that i find pretty attractive. My question is how do i text her and turn it from school to personal? I see no options that wont get blown out. Any tips?

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    Default Re: Need advise asap.

    Be fun, playful & interesting.
    Don't start trying to "ask her out"... but rather, be different than every other guy.

    If she sees you as being "the fun, cool guy" she's going to start getting more curious & attracted.

    It's a subconscious thing that happens.
    You're not "hitting on her", you're just a guy she WANTS to have more communication with when you flirt the right way.


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    Default Re: Need advise asap.

    Yeah but she will start wondering why im texting her in the first place if its not school related. I dont think she is the type of chick that really gets hit on a lot. She is about average looking and kinda shy. If i start texting her flirting right away then she will prolly ask why im texting her in the first place and blow me out. So how do i start it to where she doesnt think about that?

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    Default Re: Need advise asap.

    Flirting can be totally obvious, OR it can be subtle & kind of "undetectable".. . but either way it can achieve the same results.

    When you tease her playfully about things she says or does, that's the most effective way.

    Think like a 4th grader... things that were funny back then, work well for "flirting". It's that childish, stupid, silly humor & bantering that will affect a girl & make her start to become attracted to you.

    Forget the stuff like "Wow, you're cute." or "You have gorgeous eyes."

    Give her a hard time about school work, or questions she has. Call her nerd, or dork, or teacher's pet... things like that.

    Any time you can razz her about ANYTHING, do it! The more smarty-pants & silly you are, the better it's gonna work.



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    Default Re: Need advise asap.

    Lol. I understand that but im asking what to do for initial contact. She doesnt ever text me with questions about class. I want to text her but i dont know what i should say. The shit we are doing in class right now is very straight forward for anyone. Lol. So anything i text her will be transparent.

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    Default Re: Need advise asap about girl in class (I have her number)

    If you want to initiate contact then, ask her about whatever the schoolwork is. However don't drag it out, eventually the subject will change to something else. Even if you completely understand the work, you can spin it in so many different ways to make first contact. Everything that you say to any female needs to be organic, meaning that none of us can tell you exactly what to say.

    Another thing to keep in mind is that your relationship (and I mean that as lightly as possible) with this girl will not be based around you two texting each other. Talk to her in class, having that one-on-one personal contact in addition to texting is loads better then only being that "texting buddy"

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    Default Re: Need advise asap about girl in class (I have her number)

    T-Mal says it all.

    Don't put any effort thinking about what you should write.

    I want you to do an exercise. Easy one. Grab a pen and a paper. Imagine that you're in a coffee shop and you got a girl's number. Yeah, imagine you just had the balls and walked right into her table, sit down and asked her number and she obviously gave it to you. Doesn't matter what you said, remember, it's your own simulator, you make the rules, you can't fail.

    Once done, imagine yourself in that place, you sit up and leave. Now write down every single phrase you'd tell her in a text message. Every single one. Without thinking, just write down everything that comes right to your mind.

    Pick one.

    "Hey nerdball, our teacher remembers me of (something dorky)"


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