Hi im new here, the name is felix and i recently found out about this site not too long ago.
I didnt know where else to post this since i am new and am introducing myself aswell as asking for some advice.
So me and my friend were at the park, we were at the swings (yes at the swings lol) when these two gorgeous females come in and begin to play on the swings aswell.
We didnt really talk to them but this is kind of the converstation we had (Im going to name them G1 and G2):
G2: Swing higher and jump off (playfully saying it)
G1: haha you're funny
Me: If you jump off you'll land in the slide it wont be nothing serious (with a side smile, idk the name of it)
G1: "haha" (Loudly and excited as if shes having lots of fun) Yeah i know right!
So a bit of time goes by and G2 is about to go on the swing again when i am walking towards the same one, she asks if i am going to use it and i say yeah in a cocky way, but then say "But you can use it" and i walk over to my friend.
A few minutes go by and they are about to leave, i say:
Me: Hey wait up!
Me: You two seem cool to hang out with do you have a facebook where i can keep in touch with or something?
Them: uhm, how old are you guys?
Me: Hes 17 (pointing at my friend) and im 18
Them: Oh well, we are much older than you guys
Me: Really? By how much?
Them: Im 19 and shes 21 sooo yeaa...
Me: Oh alright then, catch you later then.
And they left. I dont know what i could have done to make it better, but i felt i could have done much better considering that BS excuse about their age. I dont have much game with girls either.
So im in highschool, a senior and theres this girl who i mess around with (no not sexually). She and i bother each other alot cracking jokes on each other all the time and such, when today i made a random comment about her being freaky, she instantly replied with "Let me be thenn" with a smile on her face.
So after class we are at our lockers ready to go home when i hug her goodbye and slap her ass lightly, she then slaps me (no too hard) in the back of my head and calls me "stupid" but blushing and smiling aswell.
I walk over to a friend to dismiss myself from him and when i back to her ( i gotta go by her locker to go downstairs) she passes by me and lightley slaps me in the back of my head again and i slap her thighs, without looking back i keep walking and go home.
Am i being too much of a chump? I've heard about this Alpha thing but i just be myself and take actions for myself and do what i want usually, Can someone help with these situations on how i can better them? Im new here and i would greatly appreciate it if someone would start from the beginning with me because i really have no game with girls lol.