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    Default Need help with these two different situations involving these cute women

    Hi im new here, the name is felix and i recently found out about this site not too long ago.
    I didnt know where else to post this since i am new and am introducing myself aswell as asking for some advice.
    So me and my friend were at the park, we were at the swings (yes at the swings lol) when these two gorgeous females come in and begin to play on the swings aswell.
    We didnt really talk to them but this is kind of the converstation we had (Im going to name them G1 and G2):
    G2: Swing higher and jump off (playfully saying it)
    G1: haha you're funny
    Me: If you jump off you'll land in the slide it wont be nothing serious (with a side smile, idk the name of it)
    G1: "haha" (Loudly and excited as if shes having lots of fun) Yeah i know right!
    So a bit of time goes by and G2 is about to go on the swing again when i am walking towards the same one, she asks if i am going to use it and i say yeah in a cocky way, but then say "But you can use it" and i walk over to my friend.
    A few minutes go by and they are about to leave, i say:
    Me: Hey wait up!
    Them: ???
    Me: You two seem cool to hang out with do you have a facebook where i can keep in touch with or something?
    Them: uhm, how old are you guys?
    Me: Hes 17 (pointing at my friend) and im 18
    Them: Oh well, we are much older than you guys
    Me: Really? By how much?
    Them: Im 19 and shes 21 sooo yeaa...
    Me: Oh alright then, catch you later then.
    And they left. I dont know what i could have done to make it better, but i felt i could have done much better considering that BS excuse about their age. I dont have much game with girls either.

    Situation #2
    So im in highschool, a senior and theres this girl who i mess around with (no not sexually). She and i bother each other alot cracking jokes on each other all the time and such, when today i made a random comment about her being freaky, she instantly replied with "Let me be thenn" with a smile on her face.
    So after class we are at our lockers ready to go home when i hug her goodbye and slap her ass lightly, she then slaps me (no too hard) in the back of my head and calls me "stupid" but blushing and smiling aswell.
    I walk over to a friend to dismiss myself from him and when i back to her ( i gotta go by her locker to go downstairs) she passes by me and lightley slaps me in the back of my head again and i slap her thighs, without looking back i keep walking and go home.
    Am i being too much of a chump? I've heard about this Alpha thing but i just be myself and take actions for myself and do what i want usually, Can someone help with these situations on how i can better them? Im new here and i would greatly appreciate it if someone would start from the beginning with me because i really have no game with girls lol.

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    Default Re: Need help with these two different situations involving these cute wome

    Anyone? This has gotten over 100 views so i am sure there is someone who knows how to deal with this :/

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    Default Re: Need help with these two different situations involving these cute wome

    Quote Originally Posted by Forielz View Post
    So a bit of time goes by and G2 is about to go on the swing again when i am walking towards the same one, she asks if i am going to use it and i say yeah in a cocky way, but then say "But you can use it" and i walk over to my friend.
    You weren't congruent. The yeah was ok (if said with a grin/smile), the next part wasn't.

    Me: You two seem cool to hang out with do you have a facebook where i can keep in touch with or something?
    I would reframe it into a C&F way, seeing that you like it: "you 2 seem cool enough to hang out with us, so tell me your facebook/number/whatever"

    Them: uhm, how old are you guys?
    Me: Hes 17 (pointing at my friend) and im 18
    Them: Oh well, we are much older than you guys
    Me: Really? By how much?
    Them: Im 19 and shes 21 sooo yeaa...
    Me: Oh alright then, catch you later then.
    Well, you know you failed this one. When she asked for your age, I would have answered something like: "well I'm 70 years old, he's my grandson and is 10 years old"

    They would probably laugh and if they still wanted to know the truth, I'd tell something like "well ya know, I'm like Benjamin Button"

    Situation #2
    So im in highschool, a senior and theres this girl who i mess around with (no not sexually). She and i bother each other alot cracking jokes on each other all the time and such, when today i made a random comment about her being freaky, she instantly replied with "Let me be thenn" with a smile on her face.
    So after class we are at our lockers ready to go home when i hug her goodbye and slap her ass lightly, she then slaps me (no too hard) in the back of my head and calls me "stupid" but blushing and smiling aswell.
    I walk over to a friend to dismiss myself from him and when i back to her ( i gotta go by her locker to go downstairs) she passes by me and lightley slaps me in the back of my head again and i slap her thighs, without looking back i keep walking and go home.
    Am i being too much of a chump? I've heard about this Alpha thing but i just be myself and take actions for myself and do what i want usually, Can someone help with these situations on how i can better them? Im new here and i would greatly appreciate it if someone would start from the beginning with me because i really have no game with girls lol.

    This situation seems kinda good, however, don't misinterpreat being alpha with being an ass (which you wasn't).

    Kudos mate

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    Default Re: Need help with these two different situations involving these cute wome

    There's just simply too much going on to just give you a quick fix. I'll give you a couple, but if you want to know further than you have to do you're own homework. This is a serious skill that takes years to master.

    Never chase after a woman the way you did saying "Hey wait up."

    Age doesn't matter. It only mattered because you believed them. Next time just brush it off and change the subject completely.

    For the girl in school, you're in highschool!!! You shouldn't even be worrying about this stuff yet. But if you need a place to start then get your hands on Magic Bullets or The Art of Approaching. Also Double your Dating.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Need help with these two different situations involving these cute wome

    Alright, thanks. I dont have much success with women and i guess its because i never say the right thing to catch their attention or whatever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    You weren't congruent. The yeah was ok (if said with a grin/smile), the next part wasn't.
    What could i have done next? I said yeah with a grin. The part where i said "you can use it," what could i have said/done instead?

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    Default Re: Need help with these two different situations involving these cute wome

    "Yeah. 5 dollars and I'll let you use it ;-)"

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    Default Re: Need help with these two different situations involving these cute wome

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    "Yeah. 5 dollars and I'll let you use it ;-)"
    The only thing i can think of to do after this is chuckle a bit and walk over to my friend lol... I guess i have alot to learn ? Dx


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