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Thread: help with 3rd date...running dry on material!

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    Default help with 3rd date...running dry on material!

    so ive been on a couple of dates with this HB 7.5 theyve gone pretty well. f-closed 3rd date. we went running after that, and were meeting again thursday, but no specific plans. im worried she may be losing interest cuz our first date was awesome and i havent been able to top it. i think one of my major problems is im not terribly good with cocky/funny. thats not just this girl, but kind of a running issue for me. so what im asking for is two parts: 1) good ideas for a date thursday + any good conversation directions and 2) some help with cocky funny (this is probably mroe important to me). i have a sense of humor that i think would adapt well to cocky funny, just cant quite get the feel of it yet. thanks all in advance.

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    Default Re: help with 3rd date...running dry on material!

    The first step is to step back and relax bro. You're over thinking wayyy to much You've already gone on three dates with her man. Your personality should have come out by now, just be you. Just be confident in whatever you do, that's what cocky/funny is. It's simply being confident in all you do, and naturally some things will come off as cocky or funny. Approach it from this mindframe: I'm putting it all out there, take it or leave it. If she doesn't except you for you, you'll find someone who will. BE YOU!! It's not about topping the last date either. Go out and have fun. It's as simple as that. One of the most attractive things to a woman is someone who is comfortable in their own skin. Thus I can't stress enough, just be yourself. Don't worry about cocky funny. The moment you start worrying about that shit during a date, it will screw you over.

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    Default Re: help with 3rd date...running dry on material!

    Yeah thats good stuff. Okay man I want you to not think about what to say. When spending time with the girl things will come naturally. When your running out of "material" it means your running out of ways to keep her entertained. Do you see how that frame wont work? Try a date that invokes feeling from you and her. Something you love. One idea is an art gallery. You each will have your own opinions. Whats really attractive is when guys can make anything work. The fact that you and her are together and your comfortable just going with that flow. Good luck!


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