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Thread: Any tips for a disabled man looking to date regular girls?

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    Default Any tips for a disabled man looking to date regular girls?

    Hey guys. I'm in a wheelchair and I'm not sure if girls are turned off by my disability.

    I'm 26 years old and I've never had a gf.

    Or not sure if I feel insecure when I'm around them due to my disability.

    I'm currently trying online dating on zoosk. I have not had much success and so far only had one girl reply to me and give me her number.

    I know it's all about the confidence with women but honestly it's harder said than done...especially when you have severe limitations.

    I have never been to a club as it's hard for me to travel much.

    Any advice you guys can give me or some tips on how I can change my approach.

    Would appreciate any feedback.

    Thanks

    Jack

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    Default Re: Any tips for a disabled man looking to date regular girls?

    yo while i have no experience in this, there was one guy i can't remember his name, he was one of david Deangelos mates, you can listen to him speak about being in a wheel chair / how he dealt with it in im pretty certain it was the "cocky comedy" program, there were some awesome stories and ways from him that i can recall (Y)

    it actually almost seems like he was at an advantage over other guys

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    Default Re: Any tips for a disabled man looking to date regular girls?

    Look up simple pickup wheelchair on you tube, these guys should inspire you. Look I dont know what its like but these guys show if you go out and approach you become less insecure. Especially when you find theres girl who would love to meet you. Just gotta take action but yeah watch that video

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    Default Re: Any tips for a disabled man looking to date regular girls?

    Yea chck out the video above. Think of your wheelchair as an opportunity, you are already different than most guys these girls have dated that's a plus! Plus it's a license to do whatever the hell you want, if you are ultra confident these girls will be like damn...this guy has his shit together and he's even stronger for it. If you are blowing these girls off and being cocky funny and confident with them they are like...that guy just blew me off...damn...he must really pull. However most girls will be slightly uncomfortable at first just because it is different and new to them. Expect that. This means that you must initiate and lead even more than most guys. Don't wait for them to make the first move. You drive the interaction!!! Ooh I just thought of a good Kino, tell girls to sit on your lap in the chair so you can talk to them. Then take them for a ride.

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    Default Re: Any tips for a disabled man looking to date regular girls?

    David D friend is Sean but im not sure of the spelling. He is in a wheelchair and has dwarfism (or some other condition).

    If your like nervous, dont try to hard at first. Just try to be fun with anyone who happens to be around. Smile... look people in the eye... make jokes about your condition. Some people feel nervous around any disabled people because they dont really know how to act. Show them you are normal and fun lol.

    And accept the fact that people will look at you because of that. Use this as an advantage. Look at pretty girls as they walk by (in their eyes). When they look just say hey and do a light routine. Most people will stop and talk because of your disability.

    And dont EVER think people are just pitying you! You will hurt your progress immensely! Never ever think that of women.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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