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Thread: I need some help

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    Default I need some help

    I'm 24, and still have done nothing with women. I was fat for a long time and am still adapting to being semi confident about my appearance. Mentally however, I am a wreck as I have zero confidence at all.

    The problem I am having is opportunities, and now oneitis.

    I work in retail, and recently a coworker actually came onto me but I wasn't able to close it out. I played the game so badly. It is killing me because I see her so often and really wanted it for such a long time prior to this. I actually think that I had an opportunity to make a move and failed, but am not sure about it.

    As far as opportunities go, I moved to this city about 6 months ago now and haven't made any friends as I work and commute to school all the time. As a result I don't go out like at all - except when friends visit.

    I really am struggling, very badly mentally, and don't know what to do. I feel helpless, and am tired of being alone.

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    Default Re: I need some help

    This is a start to a beautiful beginning for you. You are 24, you're single, and you have a job and a burning desire to be better with women. This is where is starts. What is preached here is that there is no quick fix. But if you stay here and learn from others your dedication will pay off. The most important thing is that you are willing to take action. Start by using time, any time and taking action. Start with the beginner section on the forums. Learn the basics, body language, alpha Mindset, and implement this into your every day life. Im glad you came here for help but if you dont take action and learn more and TALK TO MORE WOMEN. I can Guarantee nothing will change. Its your move man. Are you willing to work for the one thing that will change your life forever? Or are you going to sulk all day.

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    Default Re: I need some help

    Welcome to to the team bruh. You came to the right place.

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    Default Re: I need some help

    I know exactly how you fell man. It's all a matter of changing how you think and act. When I dropped 50 pounds, I felt great, and I still feel great (If you want the secret, check out the book 4 Hour Body). However, there is way more to it than physical appearances. I am sure that in due time, you will figure out everything you need to know.

    Welcome to the Gentleman's Club
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    Default Re: I need some help

    I'm 24, and still have done nothing with women. I was fat for a long time and am still adapting to being semi confident about my appearance. Mentally however, I am a wreck as I have zero confidence at all.

    As far as opportunities go, I moved to this city about 6 months ago now and haven't made any friends as I work and commute to school all the time. As a result I don't go out like at all - except when friends visit.

    I really am struggling, very badly mentally, and don't know what to do. I feel helpless, and am tired of being alone.[/QUOTE]

    [COLOR=blue]Are you waiting for the p*ssy fairy? The only way to have success with women is to have success with women. Go out, you're 24. I got divorced at 33 and at 34 I was going out hard 4 or 5 nights a week until I figured it out. Learn how to open, learn how to transition, learn how to attract and make that ish happen. If you can find another pua good but don't let that be an excuse to hold you back. it's your life, take charge and man up. Hell, you can call me if you're struggling. I will advise you personally. PM me for my phone number.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 03-29-2013 at 07:16 AM.

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    Default Re: I need some help

    Have you lost alot of weight? If so congradulations. I think a great place to find support and self confidence is the gym. Alot of great opportunities to build who you are as a person and create a better self image. You can build alot of friendships and meet new people who have the same struggle your going through.


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