im new to the site and the PUA game, so this is my introductory post.
this issue just sprang up recently from a girl ive been messaging, our initial contact was on twitter where we chatted occasionally but then we ran into each other randomly in a club so i messaged her;
me: i only saw you briefly last night, we should hang out some time.
her: yeah that would be cool haha you can show me around
me: yeah, im sure i can stretch to that! itd help to book your tour if you gave me your number
her: haha awesome! here it is 07xxxxxxx
-- any way this carries on for a few days day or so, with me intentionally being flirty in the texts to avoid being boring. then just before we are about to go for drinks I notice her FB relationship status changes to "in a relationship" (she added me) so i text her saying
me: just saw you recent changes to facebook hah tbh i wouldn't have asked you to meet me if i knew you were seeing sombody.
her: i thought it was just friendly :s
I was under the impression that asking for a number forwardly and making arrangements to meet for drinks with a stranger would be pretty obviously not just a friends thing..
I suppose my real question is;
am i not being direct enough?
was she just naive?
or is there something else I haven't considered.
thanks for reading, and if anybody takes enough of an interest to reply hah