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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    Quote Originally Posted by harryhouston View Post
    Hi, I just browsed through the page about acting like an Alpha Male and it fu*king WORKED! Big time!
    I am amazed at how effective it was! There's this girl I work with in my office I met last week, and I immediately had a huge crush on her, so was always awkward while talking to her, always the subordinate guy laughing at her jokes and smiling to keep her happy. I tried to ask her out subtly the other day, and she diplomatically excused herself from it

    I thought that probably it has something to do with my being a meek, shy guy. So I read a few things about acting like an Alpha Male, like spreading out yourself while sitting on a sofa, being too casual and confident about future career and girls, etc, and I couldn't believe that tonight it was the girl who tried to keep up with the conversation and smiling intermittently just to keep me encouraged to speak more! She was trying to keep me happy! And she herself asked if I would like to go out with her for some event over the weekend!!
    Tides totally changed, and I owe you here bigtime!

    I hope things go well for me further now, although situations' quite complicated as I want to have a long term relationship with her, maybe marry her since she's the most perfect girl I could ever find, but she already has a boyfriend and its too early to guess how things are going to flow!
    Be careful, you are already slipping into a bad Mindset. This "She's the perfect girl I want to marry her" attitude is way way bad and will lead to all kinds of repercussions.

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    Question Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    Be careful, you are already slipping into a bad Mindset. This "She's the perfect girl I want to marry her" attitude is way way bad and will lead to all kinds of repercussions.

    Could you probably kindly elaborate why you think it's a bad mindset?
    This girl has a few great things which I had previously found in several girls, but never in one girl alone, and I don't think I'll ever find someone with her qualities again. This was probably the most perfect person for me, but unfortunately she has a boyfriend, and being a 26 years old medicine resident, I am sure she's probably serious about him and committed too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    Be careful, you are already slipping into a bad Mindset. This "She's the perfect girl I want to marry her" attitude is way way bad and will lead to all kinds of repercussions.

    OMG! Within 2 days I realized what you meant by saying that its a bad mindset!!
    (ok this story ahead is going to sound a little convoluted, maybe premature, but lemme still tell you how it went to continue the flow. Besides, this is the only place where I can share whats been happening with me!)

    So after a couple of days with this girl, lets call her B, I realized that she does indeed have those 'unique' group of qualities, but there was not much of a chemistry between us (I don't know why, I am never so awkward with girls for such a long time. And I am sure the problem was not just with me.) I mean after being friends for like 10 days, we still don't feel that comfort between us, and what's a relation without a chemistry, right?
    So the 'intense' crush I felt for B kind of melted a bit over some time. So I thought maybe I should wait a little and see how things go later, instead of rushing things now with her...

    But then I met this other girl, V, today... She's my project partner, and she's not the gf-material, more like nerdy kind. She was not even from my country or ethnicity. But we still share so many interests and talking to her felt so much, well, fun and peaceful, that I realized the value of chemistry in a relation... So now since me and V have so much chemistry between us, I easily asked her out for a movie (the official reason being our common 'interest' in the movie, not a date.)
    So I think I should probably keep dating this other girl, V, see how things go with multiple people, before really finalizing which one to stay with permanently... And I am sure the fact that my dating this other girl, V, is going to elicit some 'love' responses/feelings in B, if there exists any... And if not, then its good that I realized it so soon, when I still have a great back up and keep on dating more girls to find The One...

    I am definitely going to keep this place posted about how things go on in the next few days

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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    Hey everyone,

    My name is Gabe I'm 23 and I live in Perth, Western Australia, thought this would be rather interesting to see what some of you are saying in regards to PUA's. Look forward to involving myself some hoe in future.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    I only recently learned what a pua is. I'm reading The Game at the moment but haven't finished yet, I've been doing some (very) casual research online as well.

    My story's a long one, but the short version is I'm getting a divorce and it could quite realistically turn out that none of my friends are wingman material -- and since I've never had the privilege of a decent wing, I have plenty to learn myself. From what I've read, it sounds like my best bet is FTOW, and frankly I wish I had done so ten years ago but I had some anxiety/avoidance related issues.

    I've been changing a bit over the last couple years. The anxiety is getting easier to deal with, especially once I realized that rejection is pretty meaningless and not worth fearing on a planet with billions of women. Having a house and a steady job help too.

    That being said, merely not worrying about rejection isn't going to get the job done. And dealing with anxiety while not getting results is, in a word, tiresome. Most recently I noticed what I'm guessing is incongruence, and my inner game which had been improving for a few months has either plateaued or slightly tapered off.

    In general I've gotten impatient lately with this as well as other areas of my life, although I figure that if I improve in any one area it will give me more confidence to use as fuel on the other areas. Unfortunately, too much stagnation on one front seems to have a similar effect.

    So to hell with stagnation then. What's the next step?

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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    Hi Everyone,

    just a quick message to introduce myself.

    I've been reading these forums for a few weeks now but not go round to messaging. Following the advice on here I have got a few new numbers in my phone and found a girl I quite like.

    Just the confidence gained from reading the posts and thinking "I now know what to do when...." has scored me a date with a girl I would not normally even have aproached, and am now desperately trying to avoid the FRIENDZONE before I see her next Friday.

    Still, if I do end up friended, screw it, theres going to be plenty more options now!

    Game On!

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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    hi this is muzzo, 30 yo dude from kuala lumpur, malaysia...the land where the art of seduction is practically unheard...i'm here trying to learn some of the skills to approach women...

    thanks

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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    Heya,
    I just discovered this forum site, and after browsing through only a couple posts, I realized I'm in the right place!

    I used to play drums in a rock band, & traveled the US playing the bigger club circuit. Back then it was SOOOO easy to get women interested, and just as easy to seal the deal.

    But after being off the road & not playing in a band for several years, I forgot a lot of what I used to do & used to know.

    But like I said, I browsed through a couple posts just a few moments ago & read some things that clicked in my head & triggered a few memories! (Kinda one of those "Ah-ha!! moments!!!")

    I'm definitely looking forward to refreshing my memory & sharpening my skills again, & I'm sure I'll make some new friends along the way here too!!!

    Thanks, Y'all!!

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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    Sup. 24. From Canada. Ready to learn.

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    Default Re: Introduce Yourself Here

    Hi guys.
    Please dont laugh.
    After 18 years of marriage (I'm 47) I see myself in a dating atempt. All new to me. And this stuff...


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