Anybody on here from australia?
Anybody on here from australia?
Mo Mo - is that really you in the picture?
Yeah mate sure is.
Digging the glasses my brother!
My name is Tom, i live in london. I've read a lot of stuff, starting with "the game", "art of seduction" throught NLP books and lot of other stuff. I've tried to put some of it in action, didn't get much results and gave up i know i just didn't try hard enough.
I've never had a "BIG" problems with girls. I've slept with 11 girls so far (i'm 22). However i feel like i'm missing something. Often i see a girl on the street, or in the club and i really wanna do something about it, but i just don't have enough balls. Besides, i think of myself as a good looking guy... don't get me wrong, i'm not a best looking, but i guess i have nothing to complain about. My friends always use to say about my girlfriends, that a guy like me can do better than that... but i would always ask muself a question "can i really?" coz i never really could, and never really did. Sad to say but with very few excetions my girfriends were always below my standards........... Anyone there like me?
I really want to change it now. I know i do have enough knowlege, I've spend so much time reading seduction books, internet posts etc. Now there is a time for action lol. Hope i can finally put myself together and get into action.
Hope to learn something from you guys!
Last edited by tommo; 08-18-2009 at 01:35 PM.
Sounds like a shameless promotion... but it isn't as I won't recommend who to go with, but I highly recommend a boot camp. I have seen tremendous success with a certain pair of instructors (sign up for my newsletter to see who I am promoting highly but his name is Christian) have had amazing success with clients in NYC, London, SF and Singapore. I was helping them teach and there was young, good looking guy who had moderate success with women and after the second night learning how we do it (ya, there are some real awesome, non-public things they are teaching) - he was amazing. He went from not having a clue what to do when out, to literally making even us the instructors drop our jaw. I recall at one point he was SURROUNDED by hot girls, all leaning in, some touching him, all trying to get his attention. He literally came up to me and *deleted (find out in my newsletter but his initials are CH) and asked us how we were doing. We both just started laughing and reminded him he was SURROUNDED by the hottest girls in the venue and they were all vying for his affection. One thing I learned is, not only do guys learn faster than I could ever imagine, it sometimes takes a long time for them to realize how amazing they have become.
So.. in short. A boot camp. And not from one of the larger more classroom like schools. We ran into them occasionally and it was funny watching them. I've heard of guys going to those repeatedly and still not learning anything of value.
Check one out, and let us now man.
Until then, welcome to our little community.
Im brand new to this - I live in London.
My main issue is initiating, maintaining conversation and closing with girls I find hot (Ive come to the right place no!?). I have no excuse, Im very good looking, very tall (6'5'' - know how you feel 'too tall') and 100% a 'leader of men' as you say but right now Im poor when it comes to seeking out and building raport with women I really want.
I feel the FEAR big time and because Im popular, having lots of friends, its easy for me to hide away from it. I totaly respect you guys for having the bottle to take this on. I hope I have the same courage.
I feel that a little guidance could make a big difference for me but Im having trouble initiating it. I can be king of my group and great at talking to unavailable HOT girls, but in the field of play my chat is just plain dull and I get left behind by friends who seem able to up their game.
I know that to succeed you have to get on with it and do the hard yards, but right now it almost seems too tough to take on.
Any early advice???
hey dude.. i'm quite new into this as well. however, if you need a wing man around here, i'm on it. i guess it's better to get into it with someone.
let me know if you fancy some winging.