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    Hey guys, I'm not a total newbie to the art. I'm in early-20s and in college. With amateur skills it's not hard to get by in college but can always be better. I joined so I can tone my skills to a tee and learn from everyone's previous situations and gain knowledge to be able to move past some shy/dull habbits (**when not drunk**) and improve my abilities.

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    Hey, I'm Nightwatch 25 from Tucson AZ. Just read The Game at the request of my best friend, and I can definitely say I am an AFC.. Could use a good wing and plenty of tips to get me started. My biggest hang up I've noticed is that I seem to find myself in places where there simply ARE no targets..crazy as that sounds. Transportation is also an issue as my only means of getting around is a company vehicle.. I'm pretty sneaky about taking it out but at the same time, all it would take is someone seeing it once out at a bar or club and there goes my job. Anyway, glad to be here and looking forward to learning from all of you out there.

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    Hi everyone!

    I'm a 20 year old Grafic Design Student and I live in Holland.
    When i was 17 i got to know my first girlfriend. She was in the same school as me. when we started dating I moved in with her after 3 months... crazy right?
    about 5 months back, 2 years later from the first day we started dating, we broke up.
    Now this girl was my first girlfriend, and she was interested in me... before that i was a total loser... really a nerd... didnt know where i belonged in life. Started hanging out with the outcast of the school. Became alternative, close to emo. After i met my now ex gf I realized i can do better, i got more social, went out more with true friends and i had a blast at my work every day (i work at the local supermarket as a cassier, we are three guys including me and we have about 20 woman.)

    Now to get to the point of this story... When we broke up i totally lost game.. wasnt outgoing anymore, was hard to interact with girls even at work... i was once again a rather pathetic nerd. Now a few month further im getting back up and i started looking up pick up artists and now this very moment im writing this i have decided i want to be in the community. Thinking i probably dont belong in it.

    let me tell a few things about myself.
    Im shy, but once i get to talk to woman its fine.. the opener isnt even the worst part of it its the aa problem. I get paralyzed once i want to walk up to a woman knowing i dont have a good opener or story to tell.
    now observing this community for awhile i got to hear a few good openers. The thing is though they sound better in English and they work in english but im afraid they might not in Dutch they will sound goofy and lame (dutch is a lame language)

    Now i know you guys will say just do it, doesnt matter if you screw up or get rejected.. thats true but the next problem is.. i cant make up my own openers.


    anyways, this is a small amount of what my problem is.
    I would love to get to know you guys and maybe (if there are dutch peeps on here) meet you in real and maybe we can roll sometime!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spindle View Post
    Im shy, but once i get to talk to woman its fine.. the opener isnt even the worst part of it its the aa problem. I get paralyzed once i want to walk up to a woman knowing i dont have a good opener or story to tell.
    now observing this community for awhile i got to hear a few good openers. The thing is though they sound better in English and they work in english but im afraid they might not in Dutch they will sound goofy and lame (dutch is a lame language)

    Now i know you guys will say just do it, doesnt matter if you screw up or get rejected.. thats true but the next problem is.. i cant make up my own openers.


    anyways, this is a small amount of what my problem is.
    I would love to get to know you guys and maybe (if there are dutch peeps on here) meet you in real and maybe we can roll sometime!
    One thing that helped me a little bit with just opening is that you gotta go in with no expectations, act like you still have that gf because then you're not actively looking for something else. And when it comes to opening, it won't matter what you say as long as you say it. I asked a girl last night "If she were a hotdog would she eat herself?" and it led into a conversation where I could work in a routine after that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nightwatch1919 View Post
    One thing that helped me a little bit with just opening is that you gotta go in with no expectations, act like you still have that gf because then you're not actively looking for something else. And when it comes to opening, it won't matter what you say as long as you say it. I asked a girl last night "If she were a hotdog would she eat herself?" and it led into a conversation where I could work in a routine after that.
    Thats a genius opener hahaha!
    Love it!

    I'll try it when im out next time! thanks for the the tip.
    also, how do you introduce yourself? as a pickup artist and thus as Nightwatch? of just your normal name?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spindle View Post
    Thats a genius opener hahaha!
    Love it!

    I'll try it when im out next time! thanks for the the tip.
    also, how do you introduce yourself? as a pickup artist and thus as Nightwatch? of just your normal name?
    In this situation, since I was with a friend from work, I just went with my real name, or whatever nickname he happened to call me which he insists on calling me "the heat monger" for reasons I'll never understand. Let her ask your name, I believe I remember reading that that is an ioi.

  7. #447
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    I've recently got out of a 5-year relationship, before which I was terrible with women. I'm still terrible but I think I'm doing much better. I have no problem initiating a conversation (street, train etc,) but I usually never generate any attraction. I even get numbers very often but they always flake out and my phone game is terrible (I hate talking on the phone).

    I have gotten lucky once since the end of the relationship but nothing consistent. I also feel like I do better on the train/street than in the bar because Direct Game is easier for me. I also have no problems getting rejected. When I was in high school, I was a telemarketer which means I got rejected almost 100 times an hour, 25+ hours a week for over a year... so rejection is really easy to handle for me.

    I believe I can learn everything I need from reading these forums/online guides but my learning is very slow. I would definitely believe that my game would improve much quicker if I had a more experienced wing that would point out what my mistakes are.

    So I guess the real reason I joined this forum is to perhaps meet a wingman (all my friends are either in a relationship, too busy with work, or are the really quite shy types), especially for weekdays.

    As a contribution, here's the opener I use on the street (this only works in Manhattan where the avenues go North/South):

    Me:Excuse me, do you know which way is North?
    Her: Yes/No
    Me: Damn I just lost/won a bet, a female friend of mine said girls your age (20~25) wouldn't know which way is North. (Maybe give her a high five if she gets it right)
    Me: Hi, my name is ..., your is your name?


    That works about 80% of the time starting a conversation assuming she's not in a rush and/or heading in the same direction as me.

    Edit: The site-auto highlighted the word wingman and linked me to the right part of the forum.

    Cheers!
    Last edited by ZeroFilters; 10-04-2010 at 07:58 PM.

  8. #448
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    Hey im alan aka paradox, wich to me i dont think i deserve the name yet untill i can atleast hit 5 approaches /: anyways im 19, im from utah born in L.A and im looking to chat and share my experiences on here..i hope i can learn a few things on here and if your from utah u should definetly hit me up on here(: umm other then that i hope to get something out of this..sadly now that i look back, i see that i wasted my time playing video games when i should of been doing the regular teenage dating fiasco haha so im hopeful for things to change..let the games begin

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    hi im baddi im 18 years old and live at Fyn in Denmark. im kind of new to this society, but im eager to learn more about these secrets. i was introduced to the book the game of neil strauss, by my halfbrother who is an active part of the community in holland i problably wont be posting alot, as i havent really got any questeons or expirience to rapport, but i will be listening and reading your posts

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    Quote Originally Posted by Baddi View Post
    hi im baddi im 18 years old and live at Fyn in Denmark. im kind of new to this society, but im eager to learn more about these secrets. i was introduced to the book the game of neil strauss, by my halfbrother who is an active part of the community in holland i problably wont be posting alot, as i havent really got any questeons or expirience to rapport, but i will be listening and reading your posts
    Hi!

    Where is your halfbrother in Holland? Im in Holland aswell, interested in maybe meeting your half brother!


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