Joined here as an AFC to ask advice. Never really have trouble getting the women i don't want because I never give off the needy vibe with them (obviously because I could care less about them). Its the ones that come around every year or so that I'm actually interested in that I usually mess up (big) with. Looking around the forum i'm starting to get how I just need to chill and avoid one-itis with the few women i am interested in. Its hard because you want to see and meet up with these women so often, but I'm hoping to learn and eliminate the frustration I end up feeling with these women.
Plus perfecting my game with random good looking women and thus making the ones i actually want become jealous and in turn chase me is always good too.