hello. I am 31 yrs old and live in CA. I have really only had one girlfriend before i got married. so i have only been with one woman. we are now divorced, so i'm looking for help in learning HOW to talk to women. i'm a decent looking guy...girls smile at me all time, but i relied on that to do all the work for me. i basically have to have girl fall in my lap. i have lurked for a while, but i went to a business conference in las vegas and there were hundreds of women around me, and i didn't know how to talk to them. i realized, i need to join and start really working at this! i worked up the courage to say hello to a few women but after that i had nothing to say!! i feel like i have to learn how to do this. i want to enjoy life...meet interesting people....i'm not looking to jump into a relationship right now. ..so that's my story.
Hey Guys I'm Valium
I'm 18 and I'm from Zimbabwe, Africa still in my last year of highschool lets just say that the PUA lifestyle here is very different from other places.... Lets just say people here are conservative when it comes to sex...:P
Look forward to becoming an integral part of the community...
Hey I have been following Seduction techniques for a few months now and have read Magic Bullets. I am 20 years old and in NJ. I have always been really nervous around girls for some reason until freshman year in college. I have dramatically improved my look the last year in a half and I am ready to try to get some girls. I am new to this but I can guarantee that I'd try 100% if anyone wants to wing around NY/NJ.
HeyHey Guys, Oz here. Im 18 years old on my last couple of months of high school and looking forward to learning a lot from you guys. I live in CT(connecticut) and im going to college during fall 2011.
Hey guys, the names Gabriel. Im 19 and I am just looking to improve my game with the lady's to become a great PUA.
My name is Philip and I live in Miami.
My experience was couple Asian girls before I got into the game. I became an AFC around so many HBs - blonde, latino, etc. So I decided to change, I stopped partying, ditched all my female friends to look for "skills" I need. One day a friend introduced me the game, I started reading at the same time pushed myself to try out my own material (I made my own opener, dhv story, everything). Surprisingly I got the first kiss-close first night I went out to sarge. I went to ABC of Attraction boot camp and learnt so much. I'm so glad that I'm on this journey, my life has been changing a lot. I'm gaining more and more experience.
P.S. if you live/come to Miami, wanna find the best venue, wanna sarge together, let me know.
My name is Aaryn Kors, I started my journey with only a couple crutches: decent looks and a social circle of 80% Female friends. Regularly walking into a bar or restaurant with 2 or more cute girls did wonders for my status yet I had only moderate success in dating. I had virtually NO Game - at all - with a terminal case of The Nice Guy Syndrome and I was often stuck in the friend zone. I didn't feel in control of my dating life. I HAD to get my life handled...
So I read The Game and during the very first night of sarging by myself I pulled a girl from the dance floor, ran a little Mystery Method, sprinkled in some Neil Strauss and within 2 HOURS we were having sex in my apartment. The results absolutely BLEW MY MIND. Pickup had unlocked who I really was, and the techniques enabled me to avoid the friend zone. I was hooked.
Shortly afterward I discovered it's actually easier to bring 2 girls home than it is one. Within a year I began dating 2 girls simultaneously, then 3. But there was something fundamentally wrong with me still...there was a piece missing from my life: Fulfillment. I realized I needed woman to feel validated, and when I came home without a girl - or a phone number - I felt unaccomplished.
So I dedicated myself full-time to the study and practice of Self Development, Career, Psychology, and more Pickup, consuming every bit of info I could get my hands on. I set out on a goal to NOT date until I got my emotional sh1t handled. Only hookups.
During this phase I spent 2 years in the Las Vegas nightlife industry working as a Promoter and VIP Host for some top Nightclubs, Day Clubs, and a Strip Club. My co-workers dubbed me "Hitch" because of my fluency with Woman, and approaching hot woman day & night as a primary job requirement effectively perfected almost every aspect my Game.
With experience approaching literally thousands of attractive woman, I've been slapped several times, I've been totally dissed, I've fumbled hundreds of times, I've tried 101 techniques and I'm always searching for NEW material insight on how to improve every aspect of myself as a Man.
Thanks for reading my story...looking forward to networking with you guys!
Last edited by Kors; 05-27-2011 at 05:13 AM.
What's up guys? I'm typing on a phone, so this won't be long. I started using the mystery method about 2 weeks ago and am in Los Angeles. It's been a fun ride with, in my eyes, lots of success. I was married for a long time until I figured out that that wasn't for me. I am excited about the PUA community, because I am already seeing milestones crossed that I've never been to before. I am 36 yet am seeing lots of attention from early 20s on up in clubs so age isn't an issue for me.
For me, it's all about the experience and playing the game. I am not concerned with the end result at all. Look forward to getting to hang with you all a bit and learning lots more.
what up guys gambit here. im 25 living in orange county, ca. im new to the PUA community. also started reading the game by neil strauss. ive been out of the dating game for a year now and wanting to get back in it.