Re: Need serious help getting out of ljbf for my one-itis. Please help!
This is the technique in a nutshell. Keep your words friendly while your body language is not so friendly.
So talk about hanging out and funny things that happen to you in your day. Like friends do!!! Whenever she brings up your relationship CHANGE THE SUBJECT. If she pushes then tell her you will tell her later. If she KEEPS pushing after that then just frickin kiss her to shut her up. Absolutely no talking of your relationship.
BUT with your body....you want to Kino. Grab her, hold her, rub her, tap her. Everything as long as your touch slowly becomes more sexualized. So even if you start making out and taking off her clothes your words should NEVER bring to light what's happening in the moment. Don't talk about it. Just do it. I don't care if you start talking about Family Guy on tv while you are rubbing her down there. Don't talk about it and ignore any attempts she tries at talking about it. Look at it as she's just working through it herself in her mind and feels she needs to say something. So you don't have to directly respond. Smile and move on to a different subject.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."