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Thread: How to get the most out of this forum?

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    Default How to get the most out of this forum?

    Hey, I am Champ, I am from NY and I am completely new to this site and pua, and being part of a forum in general. If I am double posting or doing anything wrong or out of line, I apologize and its out of ignorance of the rules, not because I am trying to be difficult. I am unfortunately an AFC but I am ready to change that. I just finished college, and like most afc's, I have had my brief and few moments of success with women, but I want consistent success. I wouldnt consider myself to be a model by any means but I am a decent looking guy, I go to the gym a fair amount to stay in shape, I have a good job that requires me to be well dressed for the most part, and I am just all around a nice guy, too nice really which i also think is part of my problem. However when it comes to meeting women I am interested in, I am just not confident at all and I freeze up. I dont know if its just Approach Anxiety, insecurity, or a combo of both but I am just bad at meeting women. So what are some tips on how to use this forum to its best potential? Do I just start putting threads up on what ever I need advice on, or just read other threads? Any advice on getting started would be great I just dont know where to begin.I know there isnt a quick fix but I am actually pretty excited to get started and I am hoping that being on here gives me some extra motivation to approach that random hot girl i see walking down the street.

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    Default Re: How to get the most out of this forum?

    You only get out of this forum what you put into it

    Read, reply and apply

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    Default Re: How to get the most out of this forum?

    There's some books you could get into. Familiarize yourself with the lingo and basic attraction methods and you'll likely get responses for anything specific you need help on. My personal favorites are Magic Bullets, Attraction Code, and Venusian Artists Handbook (a little outdated, but still solid). Those are good to get started.

    A final tip: There's a lot of emphasis on openers. DONT fall for this trap. Openers won't get you her number or into bed. Take them for what they are and that's it. So don't get too hung up on all these fancy openers. I still use "Hi" as an opener.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: How to get the most out of this forum?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    There's some books you could get into. Familiarize yourself with the lingo and basic attraction methods and you'll likely get responses for anything specific you need help on. My personal favorites are Magic Bullets, Attraction Code, and Venusian Artists Handbook (a little outdated, but still solid). Those are good to get started.

    A final tip: There's a lot of emphasis on openers. DONT fall for this trap. Openers won't get you her number or into bed. Take them for what they are and that's it. So don't get too hung up on all these fancy openers. I still use "Hi" as an opener.
    Thanks for the advice I will look into those books for sure. I think I have worried too much about coming up with good situational openers. I am trying to focus on day game right now. I think meeting women at the bar or club is harder and I like the element of surprise that day game offers. Are u more for a direct or Indirect Approach?

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    Default Re: How to get the most out of this forum?

    Personally, I generally always approach directly whether doing day game or night game. I only go in indirect if the situation provides a good opportunity.

    Example: I was at Chipotle a couple of days ago, and the girl (HB7) making my burrito asked me what kind of salsa I want. I said, "it depends, how hot do you like it?" She thought about it for a second and asked me if I liked spicy food. I then laughed and said that it was suppose to be a sexual comment. She blushed and I introduced myself, and then number closed after a short convo.

    The only thing that you have to remember when going in indirect, is that you have to state your intentions sometime throughout the interaction. Hope this helps

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    Default Re: How to get the most out of this forum?

    Hi guys,

    First time at the forum. Was indeed looking for openers . Was wondering what the source for this forum is... Does it all originate from Mystery? Read somewhere that some say that his stuff is outdated.. If that is true, why? And second question, what is the new stuff and who made it?

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    Default Re: How to get the most out of this forum?

    Thanks for the suggestions, I really do appreciate all the feed back I get, I literally need any advice / help I can get. I like to think I am pretty good at most things I do but the whole women thing man, it is NOT my strongest area for sure. For the first time I am trying to be really proactive about changing that though instead of waiting around for it to fix itself, so again thanks a lot for your input.


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