A few months ago I came to the realization that I needed to vastly improve my skills with women, and after stumbling through DocLove, GirlsChase & "The Game" by Neil Strauss, I stumbled my way to find this great community. Here is a bit about me...
I'm actually not a shy person, I have the balls to approach any woman and the confidence to stand up for myself, I work out, dress fairly well or above average, I am a salsa teacher and when go out dancing, I'm often surrounded by women of all ages who see me and want to dance with me.
"So what's my problem then?" I hear you ask!
My main problem, or Sticking Point, is that I'm not conversation savvy. I was raised in a christian home, and I always had a bit of a serious, business like attitude. So even though I smile and act I'm friendly, I feel a bit awkward and I can't get beyond friendly small talk. Since I cannot effectively connect or escalate verbally, I cannot get women interested. But I think once I get over this gigantic hurdle, I should be fine on the other side.
I have had intimate relationships every once in a while and I'm currently seeing my latest fling from about 2 months ago, but that's not enough for me, I want to become an expert conversationalist, to banter, flirt and effectively attract women.
Time to step up my game.
See you around gentlemen