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    Default New guy looking to learn to improve social skills with women

    Hey!!!

    My name is Scarlet and I've always been socially awkward. Sooooo, I'm just joining this forum to learn how to communicate with women.

    Hope to meet you all!!

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    Default Re: New guy looking to learn to improve social skills with women

    Alright cool, Welcome! if you have any questions feel free to ask.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: New guy looking to learn to improve social skills with women

    nice to meet you scarlet, if you are looking to improve your social skills look no further, the secret to becoming highly sociable is very simple:

    social confidence comes from social experience.

    all you have to do to get good at this is to get out of the house and start making approaches and smalltalk with the people you see on a daily basis. with practice you will quickly learn the ropes and be alot less awekward

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    Default Re: New guy looking to learn to improve social skills with women

    Social Awkwardness happens to a lot more people than you would think... So keep that in mind... I wouldn't say I was socially awkward growing up, but I sure as heck wasn't confident in approaching girls or knowing what to say

    It takes some time to get over it all, but like meteora said, the more you get out, the better you get.

    There are simple steps to take, but it all starts within you. You have to literally tell yourself, "I Am going to do this"... If you can't convince yourself, you can't convince her.

    Fake it until you make it... You can fake confidence. It's been done. And then one day you will be like, "damn, I am confident"... But that is a huge step from where you are now.

    Simple small talk with random people helps. It eases you into learning to just communicate. A practice I read about and preach is simply just striking up conversations at stores you are in.

    Be it someone in line waiting, a cashier, store associate, whatever. Just strike up a convo with them. Ask them a question about a product or something in the store. They will be receptive to you, and you will learn how to talk back, more than just a "hello".


    There is tons of great material to read about it all. But, you can read all you want. The key is to practice it in theory. That takes you going out and trying.


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