An HB today mentioned her Boyfriend and how his texts aren't priority. As in, she will respond to his texts whenever she gets around to it.
So I just said something off the cuff that I really liked. I said,"yeah that's understandable. You been with him how long?(9 months)Very Cool. But yeah after all that time you guys are just so comfortable you lose the urgency. Kinda like a brother and sister kinda thing... The same type of closeness."
While I highly endorse and use BF destroyers, the way I used cuts to the chase quickly. After all, she already gave the opening by saying she is not in a rush to answer his texts (loss of passion). My short version needs tweaking but I like it's brevity.
Oh and earlier I used the house personality test (see rapport building thread, by Xavier) and her least concern was the phone which represents love life. So either she is very fullfilled with her man or just extremely comfortable with him. But most couples are together because it's comfortable, not because it's passionate. Anyway, with the knowledge she gave me, and the seeds I dropped about him, I could go full on BF destroyer later during next encounter.