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    benchase22 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Thinking too much

    I try too hard and think about it too much. Is there anything I can do to help that?

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    Default Re: Thinking too much

    Well first you should stop seeing thinking about it as a problem, when starting off, or even when you pretty good at game will you will think about a lot of stuff, I have found that game consists of a lot of conscious thinking, what neg should I use, what is my body language showing, when do I escalate, but that thinking is just because you haven't realized you have the skills at your disposal. If you know you are trying to hard, stop trying, meaning don't bend to what girls say and want you to do, you are the prize, not them, you are aware that you think to much, so use it to your advantage, when you talking to a girl you like make yourself think that you are the prize and that she is the lucky one, you will have small changes in your body language just because of those thoughts.
    Its better to get a "NO" then wonder what she might have been like in the sack ...

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    Default Re: Thinking too much

    Yea when I'm around girls, all I'm thinkin bout is "what can I say to make one of these girls like me". I'm workin on body language too cuz that's another problem.

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    Default Re: Thinking too much

    Don't worry, it's natural to be like that when you first start this stuff out. I was really unsure of what to say or how to say things when I first started this out, and I over-thought things way too much. However, the more you do it, the more natural it becomes. You just have to force yourself to do it, even if you are unsure of what you are doing is good or bad. As Michel Thomas recommended for learning, do it without thinking, then learn when you find a mistake.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Thinking too much

    I started to meditate to combat this. It's not like its a completely bad thing, but there are some moments where I don't need to think about everything I am currently thinking about. So I try to pull myself into the moment, meditating is basically all that is. Putting yourself in the current moment. Now this is just one method, it won't be an end all because nothing really is, but it should help if you want to give it a try.

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    Default Re: Thinking too much

    The stop thinking about it pick a good strong frame tweak your body language and go with the flow naturally
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


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