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    soulman123321 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Open by groceries list :) - a field report

    hey guys this is my first post online and im happy to share with you my personal experience in the game .

    well im not that new to the pua scene but in the past 2 weeks ive started taking it siriusly by learning it from the start - reading "The Game".

    So last friday i started approching sets in a loud club by reading them [From my phone] a realliy wierd groceries list containing of onions pesto sous tomatos and other sourt of non relevent vegtibles. my line was [after reading that list] - "im making a salad is there anything you think i should add?"

    Well it worked really good i got lughes when i should and some of the sets would play along and add stuff to the list but thats where i got stuck - how do i continue??

    Any thoughts?

    -Shtar

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    Default Re: Open by groceries list :) - a field report

    I am also interested in the answer to this. It seems like a good opener but is it just that, an opener? Is it only meant to last 30-60 seconds to break the ice and then transition to the next conversation? I can rule out a few paths to take. I think if she has not shown any interest yet it is not a good time to compliment her. Perhaps a good technique would be to scan her as quickly as you can and find something nice she has on and compliment that if she seems like a pretty nice girl. I'm not really sure what to do if she's giving you the uninterested face.

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    BloominSuccess is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Open by groceries list :) - a field report

    Sounds contradicting what I wrote so I will clarify the subtlety I'm referring to. Don't compliment her because you don't know her and it will seem fake. But you can appreciate style without knowing her therefore you can compliment something she has on. Then perhaps continue the conversation about fashion if you're into that. i.e. Tell her what designers you like. Ask her what designers she likes. Ask her where she likes to go shopping. Within the fashion conversation, if you see you are running out of material because you don't know much about it, transition to another topic that you are comfortable with and gauge her interest in it. At some point soon, if you see the conversation is going well tell her you have to get back to your friends but you'd like to continue your conversation and ask for her number. Give her your phone so she can input it. If you feel like it's going really well tell her you want to give her your number too. Input your number in her phone and give yourself a funny/cocky name on her phone. The best is if you can tie it to an inside joke you guys came across in your conversation. I'm not an expert by any means but I can see that working in my mind. Perhaps someone with more experience would like to weigh in.

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    Default Re: Open by groceries list :) - a field report

    Oh, and tell her you have to meet up with your friends and ask for her number during a high point in the conversation. Catch her on an emotional high and you're more likely to get a yes.

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    soulman123321 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Open by groceries list :) - a field report

    i liked the idea of giving my a cocky name on her phone but i thought i shouldnt ask her questions or ask her phone number but to make stamtmens to lead the conversation [at least thats what style teaches]

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    Default Re: Open by groceries list :) - a field report

    That makes sense. I can see if a girl is cold at the beginning not wanting to answer questions so statements sound like the right way to go. I'm new at this, where did you find what Style teaches? I said to ask questions because it has worked for me. Women like to talk about themselves so asking them questions is the way to keep the convo flowing but I guess thats after theyve shown interest and youre trying to keep the convo going. I imagine statements are used when still trying to get that initial interest?

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    Default Re: Open by groceries list :) - a field report

    i read styles book "The Game" its the jump start of any noobie pua.

    and making statements in the initial stage is usefull to show value instead of coming off as needy by asking alot of questions at the begining [you convey that you are less interesting then her thus have less value]

    asking questions i believe should be after youve isolated youre target for a deeper connaction with her..

    but im a beginner to so dont relay on me


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